2007-11-10 08:40:18 · 10 answers · asked by gerald c 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, you don't have to tell her...but I guarantee that she's going to notice at some point.
Why would you NOT want to tell her?
2007-11-10 10:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are under age you can not do it until you are older anyway. If you are over age and living at home you might get kicked out or if your folks are supportive they might be nice to you. If you do really want a sex change there is massive amounts of therapy you need BEFORE you do it and they will cover those things like issues with family and friends. So. for now, don't say anything. Wait until you are old enough andhave your own insurance or way to pay for it. Then when the time is right after you are in your pre sex change counseling, you will have ideas on how to discuss this with her. No sense in making waves right now or causing hate and discontent.
2007-11-10 16:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to change your sex you need to stop and think over the fact that eventually she will notice something is up, and perhaps showing up to christmas dinner wearing a dress will not be the best way. Obviously before you are completely ready to live the rest of your life as a different gender, you need to be emotionally strong enough to let your loved ones know. Most doctors require various things to be done to be sure this is what you want before they will perform the surgery. Some require hormone therapy, some counseling. Good luck.
2007-11-10 16:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by perfect_blue_and_blond 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, about the only solution to this problem is to move away and never see her again. I'm not trying to be cruel, but I don't think she'll be any happier to suddenly be confronted by a female you. It's much kinder to let her know now so she can get used to the idea.
2007-11-10 16:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by mommanuke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, just get it done. I don't know how she would find out unless you want to go though the complete transformation meaning breasts, facil, etc. But be advised that the hormones make you very emotional and almost like a different person, so she may know something is wrong with you by the way your acting different.
2007-11-10 16:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, dont' depend on her for any support, either emotionally or financially. However, once you get it done, the only way to not let her know is to avoid her completely, which will probably be impossible.
Why would you want a sex change anyway? You should be happy with who you are. If you were my son, I would disown you!
2007-11-10 16:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by airforcewolf 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The obvious answer is don't tell her. However wouldn't you want your mother to be a part of your life post-op? Whatever you decide, best of luck :)
2007-11-10 16:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by Patti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not touch this question with a ten foot pole
2007-11-10 18:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pencil 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her and when you're old enough to move out . . .do what you like.
2007-11-10 16:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell her.
2007-11-10 16:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Go Blue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋