according to say yes to peace question i found out that many ppl younger and older than me are in love
am i only the only one in here that is not in love?
actually before anyone s head go so far as i said before i dont want to fall in love now , only want to fall in love when i am ready to get married
2007-11-10 08:33:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
You are a very wise young lady not wanting to follow the sheep and fall in love just for the sake of being in love. most of the time that is not real love anyway it is just infatuation,
young hormones going into overdrive.
A lot of girls and guys too, fall in love with the thought of being in love. I remember feeling that way, many moons ago.
But it actually took me until I was in my very late 30's to really learn what love was about and to be able to recognise it when it found me.
In between there was a lot of heart break and sad years that I would like to forget.
But I know that Allah sent me this life, the good with the bad and each experience is not wasted so long as I learn from it.
You have a long road to travel yet and you will fall in love when love comes to you innashAllah,but never try and hurry the knock on the door.
2007-11-10 11:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
eehh well i dotn agree with people syaing love is haraam
hmm, i am in love (first love), and i wanna marry this guy
and i swear, we didnt even kiss yet loool, we want everything halaal so Allah can bless us
if u love a persons personality and u feel comfortable around them, and u can build a good future with this person then why is that haraam??
if you dont do anything against islam, how is it haraam?
if the relationship is halaal, why is it haraam??
people might say "well if u are so much in love and say its not haraam, get married now, what are u waiting for?"
well i am waiting for my dad's approval
i found what i was lookign for, when i stopped looking and caring.
naseeebeek will come when u least expect it
dont worry Gigi,
you have time!!!
and believe me u dont wanna be in love right now, like i am so happy Alhamdullilah that i have this guy and everything, but i am still young and there is alot of stuff i wont get to experience if i am married already...bass yalla basita lol
2007-11-11 11:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by ABANDONED 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound young but... you dont have to be in love now I mean you can have love for ppl but that dosent mean you have to be in Love... Just have a good time leave the love stuff for when your ready to start a family... I moved into my boyfriends hous when I was 18 because I knew i was in Love but now that I'm 21 I kicked my self in the butt for doing it. I still live with him and we are about to be married. but still I"m still young so ... you dont have to be in love now.... just wait now pretty soon some one will come in your life and make a diffrence.
2007-11-10 16:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by xllx_chely_xllx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not, and I'm Happy with my life al hamdulellah, love is necessary in our lives, thus I love my family, my friends...etc.
when it's time I'll be looking for someone to love, and to marry, insha'Allah, all I can do now is Work hard and finish my duty as a Student, so that I can have a good job, and afford my future wife a princess' life ;)
2007-11-10 16:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Psycho 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am careful about love. Pretty faces do not make love. I may be an old man until I find love, but I will know it is love then. It will be better to wait.
2007-11-11 03:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember a lot of people say there in love, especially younger ones, teens and so on, but are actually not. Everyones been through that. I love him forever crap and they break up after a month they cry and find their new love. its easy to say I love you but harder to mean it. Love is just a word in the end...
2007-11-10 16:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm not in love yet. I haven't found the right person. so keep on searching, and don't be afraid to go for it if you've found someone who you think is the right one.
2007-11-10 16:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by emgould2005 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel ya... i've been with this guys for 4 years and i now regret saying i love you in the first place because he is not the one i want to marrie... stick it out
and save it (if ya know what i mean!! lol)
=P
you go girl!
later
peace
2007-11-10 16:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by sharpie2292 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not in love and i am ver very happy with my life! I am still young for this stuuff and have better things like college tot hink about. When ur in love it will probably consume all ur time!
2007-11-10 16:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by JASMINE 2 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hold on to this wisdom, and you will be rewarded with happiness when you get married in Sha2 Allah
2007-11-11 04:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Fel Fel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋