i am just a piece of waste HELP ME?

Question

whenever i try to compete with any body i lose and it do happens every time.
please help me and tell me how to win in a competition.
i cant face people when they are in a gathering i just avoid family gatherings and stay alone in my room but i do want to be social but always i become a fool infront of people .
i always stay alone and have no friends at all i just dream all the time that some people drop their money on the road and i get it fixed in some bank nad then pass my rest of life without any worries I KNOW IT CANNOT HAPPEN BUT STILL I CANT GET RID OF IT .
i want to be a social fun loving guy but i am failing in this task from over 7 years.
i am a student at university level and i got very low marks in my matriculation and intermediate and now at university i am unable to concentrate on my classes and tasks.
i have done two years of university and i havent made a single assignment or presentation myself .
i cheat to pass through the exams but i want to be hard working

Answer 1

You just sound like your having an identity problem to me so you need to be thinking about who you are and who you want to be. You need to find something that you are passionate about and pursue it to the fullest. I believe your problem is that you dont have an activity that helps to define you. (I have always played sports. Everyone associates me with them and it gives me something to wake up for everyday. I too am not a real social person but I have a lot of friends from sports bc people that have a similar interest like me.) So just pick something: Art, music, comic books, acting, movies, chess, sports, bowling, business, education, inventor, etc...Just pick something that you can be know that you can be better at then most people if you put effort into it. It's great if this skill can one day help you make money in some way. When your hanging out with people who you have a commonality with your less likely to make a fool of yourself bc of your shared common ground. Your a dreamer so maybe you can use that to your advantage and pursue something that involves creativity. Good luck!!!

Answer 2

From what you have said, you know exactly what your problems are and so you are in the best place to fix them. Ask yourself - what do you really want? Do you want to sink or swim. Answer that and then you can move forward. But remember - we are all inperfect creatures - don't aim too high or your expectations will never be met. Just pick one small thing you want to change and focus on that. Tiny steps my friend, tiny steps.