I'm gay. So what?! If I ask advice about me and my BOYFRIEND..dont' leave me comments about my sexuality! I'm NOT sick..or have a mental illness! Stop the verbal abuse! I'm just here to ask questions...not to start an argument. I'm all about freedom of speech and all but when it comes to my personal life..that's when I say something. So please for you small mindind people out there....STOP! Thank You.
2007-11-10 08:18:04 · 59 answers · asked by alex32286 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No one told you to take it personally. Grow up.
2007-11-10 08:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah H 2 · 2⤊ 18⤋
good on you mate! sod what other people say or think!your right, being gay isn't a mental illness! the people who think that have a mental illness! i"m a young woman with a male partner and 2 children aged 10 and 16,my daughter who is 16 has a friend who hasnt long come out so to speak!we were the first people he told he was gay!i felt honoured and like him now more then ever!
2007-11-10 08:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
RIGHT ON!!! Im a lesbian and I dont like to be lectured on how "wrong" I am for who I love. I hate people who get on their high horse and act like we are wrong. Well they need to take a look at their lives and their family. Not like they are perfect. If anything they are the ones that have the mental illness...its called ignorance. You go and you tell them and if you want some back you got some back from the whole damn LGBT community!
2007-11-10 08:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by tuxcatluvr 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think gay people are okay. It's just that there's gay phobia all over the world. The truth is that 98% of men have gay fantasies but the culture wants to supress gay feelings so that people can continue making babies. Well I say we have enough babies. If someone wants to be gay, let them be gay. I have a lot of gay friends and they are really cool.
Sorry for the abuse you've suffered.
2007-11-10 08:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by CAring Dude 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, no longer in any way. i think of residing stealth is extra good yet its a private determination and that i do no longer think of its incorrect tbh. Why does it is counted a lot what physique you have been born with? we glance and are SO diverse from who we are and what we gave the effect of as babies that it does not look to count number in any respect to me. And whether chromosomally a transwoman may be XY, she is in fact nevertheless chemically woman via hormones. Any guy who could be 'tramautized' by utilising your trans status could nevertheless be 'traumatized' if he knew till now as against after because of the fact i think of that could recommend that he the ignorant and homophobic form of guy it rather is merely too damn insecure approximately his own sexual orientation and ignorant to comprehend that no, liking a transwoman does not make him gay. Why else could he be traumatized? circumstances like this usually bypass lower back to complicated gender identification and sexual orientation imo. i'm effective he hasn't divulged to you his existence historic previous, alongside with the worst areas of it and his intimate emotions etc on the 1st even 5 or 6 dates and that i do no longer think of a transwoman ought to ought to try this the two or be seen 'decieving' somebody. he's finding at who she is now and thats what concerns the main. i think of all and sundry is extra accepting than you may desire to think of most of the time.
2016-10-02 01:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay
(Y)
Gays don't bother me tbh
if it was a gay that got on my nerves, like annoying and snobby then id have something against him, just like i would with anyone else, straight, gay, lesbian, or bisexual.
at the end of the day
its just people on the internet
they probably have no social life and never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.
anyway
you're not sick
it's only small minded people who think that,
and who cares about them tbh
they need to take a look at their own lifes
hope this helped :))
cya x x x
2007-11-10 08:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I hear you big time....I mean, in all honesty, anyone who takes the time to spew hate and verbal abuse about being different is the one who is mentally deficient....and the simple fact that they don't realize this and cowardly come on here to state their ignorance, only puts them that closer to the "looney bin" category! Glad I'm gay and not banging down the doors at the Sunnydale Funny Farm !!!! Love you ALEX!!! D'n'D
2007-11-10 08:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by DESPERATELY SEEKING SANITY!!! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree--people shouldn't make mean comments about your sexual orientation when you're just asking a question. Actually, people shouldn't make mean comments about anything when you're just asking a question. Whatever the case, maybe you should ask relationship questions in this section instead of the Dating section, because I think most people think of dating as between a guy and a girl.
2007-11-10 08:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by kielsa03 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
didn't see the answers you got, bet they were from Christians though. Though I am not one, I do know Christ was a revolutionary thinker. He advised loving your enemy & turning the other cheek., at a time when people belived in an eye for an eye. He embraced prostitutes, beggars, lepers; those that society turned away from. So I think Christ would say, he loved you too, and would frown on those who judge you. ( I am not saying you are like a leper, by the way, but maginalized ) God bless you, darling!
2007-11-10 08:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by catrose 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do believe your sexual orientation is your choice,but I won't judge you based on your life choices or what your heart guides you to be.As long as your happy and you feel a greater sense of character and love( not just romance,but love for people in general,even those who criticize you)
2007-11-11 11:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by atlas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Lisa E. said.
YA is a public forum. All public forums will have trolls and trolls will always do what they do. You can either allow that to cause you to blow a gasket, or you can ignore them and concentrate on the people who have some sense and some interest in helping you with whatever your question is.
Although I do enjoy a bit of "troll-bashing" myself now and again...
;-)
2007-11-11 04:41:17 · answer #11 · answered by dreamchaser8860 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋