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2007-11-10 07:42:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
helped me, I think they give you the tools to fix yourself.
2007-11-10 07:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I work in the mental health field (which includes counseling). One counselor may work wonders for you and be totally useless for me. Most good counselors will be effective to some extent for everyone he or she sees.
Part of the quality of a counseling relationship is just that- forming a relationship. This is not meant to be a relationship that turns into feelings, but one of trust and encouragement and some direction. Counselors do not have all the answers. Sometimes (for problems that are typical and not very serious) talking to a close friend is just as good.
However, when things are of a serious nature, a Counselor that is properly trained with experience, can make a big difference.
2007-11-10 15:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Pete G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Counseling has changed my life. If the Counselor is a Doctor, you will get the best. Insurance also covers Doctorate level Counselors, not Masters or just Family counselors.
My Psychologist helps me change long held false beliefs about myself that have made my life unbearable for me, as well as others.
Take care!
2007-11-10 15:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Alvin York 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to take their suggestions and put some time into it on your own, then yes they can work really well. They are trained to help people see different angles to situations, they can help people get over mental walls that are holding you back. There is no such thing as a miracle worker, but I think counselors really can speed the process of change and help you to feel better.
2007-11-10 15:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...counselors are only as good as the work you put to them. They are a fountain of resources and that is what they get paid for. If they don't get utilized, then yeah, they're pretty much a waste.
2007-11-10 15:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ken S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, counselors help people work through problems and act as an impartial participant to assist people to work through issues.
2007-11-10 15:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by zipzeronada 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the problem, the counselor and the attitude you have at the time you go for help. =)
2007-11-10 16:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you want it to work, and cooperate it has a much better chance. If it's two party type of deal both people have to want it to work.
I guess it also depends on the issue.
Good luck
2007-11-10 15:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by otrava925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the counselor.
2007-11-10 15:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sumtimes they do. Dependin on tha one u get. But u have to do jus as much work as them, they can only give u tools 2 get better, they cant magically make u feel better. But one day I plan to be a child physcologist and i will help them no matter wat
2007-11-10 15:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by â?¥Mz_Kim_2Uâ?¥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a persons attitude and if they really want help! We ultimately make all our own choices so it is your choice whether you will benefit or not! Counsellors would not be doing the job their doing unless they genuinely want to help.
2007-11-10 15:47:03 · answer #11 · answered by Collette C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋