He yells at me and says " why did you say this or that ?"
1st~ he says dont say stuff about us ( like this question ) so I stopped.
2nd~ he says Im on here too much , so I limit myself
3rd~ he breaks up with me bcuz I answered a question on how to do oral and call me a internet whore ( I gave a simple explanation on the how to's nothing else )
SO , he's like checking up on me a fighting with me and says Im "hurting" him with Y!A ( Its my hobby ) , but he cant even see how he's hurting me by calling me name and fighting with me and breaking up with me every single weekend.
Ok from a guys point of view . Whats going on ?
He also keeps saying he can find and deserve someone that can love him the way he should be loved .
I have tried everything within reason . I think he's a martyr and wants to blame me for something , yet I have done nothing wrong .
I work , go to school, have a 2 yo, and get on Y!A nothing else . Thats my life . Whats wrong with that?
another thing is he's constantly telling me what a good guy he is . Why?
2007-11-10 06:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
tell him that if he doesn't like your innocent hobby, you could always start hanging out at the bars. i know what you mean. i don't party anymore and this is my hobby, my escape from reality. seriously, you could be hanging at bars or cheating on him! maybe you could create a new account, one he doesn't know about.
he can find someone else?? so can you!! don't you hate it when someone threatens you with that? i hate it when someone has to keep "blowing their own horn"...about what a great guy he is? there is no need to brag about greatness or good deeds...action speaks louder than words.
2007-11-10 06:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you are to blame a little here.
I can understand his viewpoint because you have your picture on your Y!A profile. Which means that someone who knows you could possibly, although unlikely, see you on Y!A and know all your business. It may be embarrassing to him.
But on the other hand, he shouldn't call you names. Maybe there are some other underlying issues in your relationship. Consider talking to him about it calmly with no name calling or throwing things in each other's face.
2007-11-10 06:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Keep on Truckin' 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 00:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by lumley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Sorry Demonica, but that guy is WAY too controlling and it probably stems from his own insecurities. I've been in relationships like that before and it only gets worse, never better. Focus on yourself and your little one, YOU deserve to find someone to love you the way you should be loved.
2007-11-10 08:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by FooFoo says dis ees boolsheet! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's point of view.....he is very insecure and probably will not change, he also seems to have a bit of jealousy. I say tell him to stop being insecure and jealous or YOU will break up with him for good.
2007-11-10 11:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by GH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ the first person who said that maybe you shouldnt have your pic up if ur asking personal questions but he is also overreacting big time - besst thing to do is communicate - talk to him seriously and ask what is realy bothering him and you two should be able to come up with some sort of a consesus. good luck
2007-11-10 06:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Solve the problem the easy way--change your email address and don't tell him what it is, since he is being such a control freak and butt hole. Sounds like you did not pick wisely when you picked this guy.
2007-11-10 14:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Paranoia, insecurities, plenty of internal weaknesses with an showy exterior.
My wife works around men all night. I work around models. We have no problem with one another and our work in any way.
2007-11-10 07:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is just feeling insecure. He might be possesive of you. He wants you to be only his. You both should respect each other but not any slavery... JUST talk and understand each other. If things go beyond boundaries, separate... But that should be the last option...
2007-11-10 06:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He's grasping at straws to end the relationship and he's very insecure. That's the what, the why is up to you.
2007-11-10 06:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋