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I stutter and people make fun of me. My dad calls me useless. I have to ride my bicycle 40 minutes every Monday and Thursday to Kumon center. But the road is not safe for me to ride my bicycle with the cars. They blow horns at me! What should I Do?

2007-11-10 05:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by banksandmyself 1 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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I feel the same way, but I am going to keep living and make them suffer with me!

2007-11-10 05:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by teresa m 7 · 1 0

Is the Kumon Center a place that is helping you with the stuttering? I am sure you don't remember, but Mel Tillis was a great country star who stuttered. But, when he sang, he never stuttered. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.Your Dad is verbally abusive, but there are many of us who have had to put up with alot worse.You know you are not useless. Just like Mel Tillis, strive to be the best you can be. There are alot of people in the world with worse handicaps and disabilities than stuttering, so consider yourself lucky.Be careful riding in the traffic. Wear bright color clothing so the cars can see you and stay over as far as you can. If things get really bad, maybe you can talk to a teacher that you trust. Hang in there! Maybe one day I will read about your great accomplishments in the newspaper. Take care.

2007-11-10 14:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 1 0

Is there a person at the center you attend that you feel close enough to open up to, if so get them alone and explain your feelings to them. Find someone to talk to asap you sound depressed, and maybe could benefit from a though medical check up. Look up a crisis hot line right here on the net and talk with someone now.Perhaps you should try under another topic than the one we are on.

You sound isolated and need to get among a nicer, kinder group of people. Do you go to Church,maybe you could join in a youth organization. Also have you ever thought about seeking speech therapy for your stuttering, it might help too.
I wish you luck and don't feel so down things WILL get better
as long as you are HERE to change them!

For inspiration look up some famous people that succeeded in spite of their speech impediments, and some because it gave them more determination to strive for greater heights!
Also talk to your father about your safety concerns when riding on that road!

2007-11-10 14:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0 0

Don't commit suicide. People can say you're useless all they want; I'm sure you're not. Try to be careful on the road and look out for cars. I wouldn't want you getting hurt. And for the people who blow their horns, let them continue to do so.

As for what you should do, keep living and use the fact that people underestimate you to your advantage.

2007-11-10 13:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Gaiares_User 3 · 0 0

God put you on this earth for a purpose...you haven't found it yet. But, committing suicide is not the answer. You do have a worth in this world. Everyone does. Look around you for just one positive good thing in your life. Once you find it......devote time into expanding it, Please talk with someone you trust, a good friend, a pastor, a neighbor and tell them how you feel. A better door might open for you. Please , get some guidance. I'm praying for you.

2007-11-10 14:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by missellie 7 · 0 0

why do u let people put u down , that what they want u to feel , depress , useless and to commit killing yourself , now what u have to do is to build confidence and brave and prove them wrong , don't let these word hurt , use them aganist them and life hon is not perfect , people are going to talk about u , they going to drive u crazy , i know it sound bad , but it up to u , to think postive and careless what other say , it ruin u and u must control it , once u slove this promblem , u can find yourself happy and living a good life. we all have problem and yet they always want to die , which i'am one too , but we all have to learn to just handle it and have confidence and defeat this in a postive way.

2007-11-10 13:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Banks I understand wanting to die. Use to if someone said it was a selfish act I disagreed. BUT I have began to agree. It's the most selfish self centered thing a person could do. Especialy under the reasons you state.
Be proud of who you are look forward to the next day so you can prove others wrong. PLEASE don't end your life.

2007-11-10 14:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by hotvw1914cc 6 · 0 0

who never tell you your all those negative thing are people you shouldn't be listening to them.

They are the losers and don't understand where you coming from.
i suggest you put smile on your face and shine like the sun.
do your things and when the time is right, you get your own apt and move on with your life and have more freedom

2007-11-10 13:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by frenchi 6 · 0 0

Please talk to someone if you're honestly feeling that way. It is so important that you don't go that route. There are ways to cope and to rise above, and learn to actually enjoy living. Google suicide hotlines, or talk to a friend that you trust - preferably an adult. I'll say a prayer for you.

2007-11-10 13:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Seek counseling.

2007-11-10 16:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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