I have known one of my best friends, Julie, for four years, and then my other friends, dom and em for 1 year. We've been really close, but it seems like Julie doesn't really tell me a lot, and only tells em. Like, i just found out that she told em that these popular girls from our school that she knew in 6th grade want her back, cause she gained weight, but then lost it this year, and she's actually considering it, and i feel so angry, cause its like our friendship doesnt matter, and then she told em that her parents are REALLY getting at eachother, and she found out her house was for sale, and shes moving either out of state or country. I wasnt supposed to know all of that, but I'm mad, cause this is big news, and she acts like nothing has been happening, cause she hasnt told me yet. What should I do?
2007-11-10 05:00:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Come to think of it, you're still lucky to have other friends. And you'd better start making more. Maybe you're considering Julie your bestfriend. To her, the thought is not even mutual & it proved to be so when she managed to keep things from you. We hate being betrayed by bestfriends we trust like when Julie opted to disclose her big news to Em. Her playing dumb like nothing happened & it's no big a deal. There may be multiple questions in your mind right now but you should assert yourself & try to move on. Give her a cold shoulder treatment for a while. She'll come to you when she feels that. When she does, you can start asking her the why's in your head. Whether you'd still be friends or not, it's always nice to take a step ahead. Make as many good friends as possible, believe me, it pays off. Good luck!
2007-11-10 23:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by zynjen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that regardless of whether she stays or moves away, you should look for another friend. And perhaps consider NOT mentioning names on the Internet.
2007-11-10 05:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's trying to cut you out.
i think you should talk to her. when you speak dont accuse her of anything use phrases like
"i am hurt that you haven't been sharing things with me, is there something you want to say to me?"
2007-11-10 05:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋