ok so i am going out with this guy that i really love, but we have latley gottin our grove on. we have been proforming oral sex, but this week i got my period its mostly spottin but how do i tell him, it is embarrassing, and i dont want to ingnore him about it either what can i do, but im not sure if it is my period either or can it just be from having oral sex that i am bleeding?
2007-11-10 03:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If he's involved with your vagina, then he's involved with your periods. A gentleman will understand that it's part of his relationship with you.
Some guys don't mind, even for oral sex, but some do. It would be a courtesy to let him know that you're having your period, because he's going to find out anyway. If you and he don't mind, put a towel under your hips and carry on.
Oral sex won't cause bleeding, unless he's biting you or something really strange. If he puts his fingers in your vagina while he's kissing the area, your hymen might have been affected.
2007-11-10 04:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tom V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is embarrassing and that it can seem like the end of the world, but honey, you're just going to have to tell him. If you feel that's necessary. Most guys know, especially when you are at the age of having sex, that women have periods. All of us. Unfortunately, it seems to come along when things are getting really hot and heavy. You say that you have been getting your groove on a lot lately. Well, no big deal. Just tell him that you need a break, if nothing else. Find other ways to be close to each other during the week. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. It's a rather natural process for you and for women in general. You are going to be telling someone for the rest of your life. If he makes fun of you or isn't repsectful, then is he worth all this worry anyway? If he a mature guy, then he will understand when you tell him. I hope that this helped a little bit. Have a good day.
2007-11-10 11:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerlily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm pretty sure that it is not your period but I don't think that it's anything serious. It could be that it was just a little aggressive? And there might be a small cut. You don't have to tell him all the gory details but just try to tell him to slow down next time and say why.
By the way, watch out for that cut and make sure it doesn't get infected or mingle with any other persons blood because it could develop into hepatitis.
2007-11-10 11:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well what i do is wait until we're bout to get out clothes of with my boyfriend, and if at this point I'm still on my period, i just say "babe, just to let you know I'm on my period, but i can still make it up to you though." and go down on him. If you tell him this he'll get the hint and will just touch (if you we're a tampon?) and stuff. Or if you still want to have sex on your periods, I say "I'm not sure if your gonna think this icky, but we can still have sex if you want, I'm still up4 it
2007-11-10 11:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. i'm sure that he has heard it all before, and if not he should know that girls have a period each month!
2007-11-10 11:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Gemma M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋