sound strange but i want to have sex more now than i did when i was in my 30s its not a problem with my hubby because hes always wanting sex surely at 43 your sex drives declines somewhat is it normal for me to feel like this at my age
2007-11-10 00:45:34 · 41 answers · asked by debbiejones94 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lucky husband
2007-11-10 00:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 41 and sex has never been better. I cannot figure out exactly why my I find I have a huge increase in sexual drive. Maybe I am really enjoying the fact that I ask for what I want and am no longer afraid to ensure that my needs are completely addressed and not just his needs are being taken care of. So go for it...have a blast and get as much as you can now as we know our clocks are not moving back..lol!
2007-11-10 01:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by tinc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that its a strange thing. Its good that even at this age ur enjyoing what others below this age level can't or couldn't enjoy. Its a God's blessing and u should accept it as a God Gift untill and unless it has bearing on ur daily routine work or health. Carry on enjoying this sex life as very few have this kind of enjoyment. Keeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep it U......P.
2007-11-10 18:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by ralit k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so more than normal than you can imagine. Do some research. 43 is some of the best sex you will have in your life. You are right on target. Enjoy it, have some fun and make your husband's day. You are totally normal. 42-48 is the height of women's sex drive. Now there are less stressors and distractions so you can really have some fun with it. Enjoy.
2007-11-10 00:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. I heard that once the child bearing age is over for a woman, she doesn't have to worry about pregnancy, so her drive either equals a guys' or surpasses it. It's perfectly normal for u to feel this way. And if u have a man willing to please u with pleasure who loves u...all the better for u...then u get the love u cherish, and all the sex u desire! Lucky u. enjoy.
2007-11-11 16:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! Congrats on your great marriage .
Your hubby is 1 lucky guy!!
Sex drives declining is a myth, it depends on what`s going on in your lives, amount of stress and the physiological changes that can occur as a result thereof.
2007-11-10 00:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You might find sex after menopause even more fun than you did before. It can be very freeing not to worry about pregnancy, and hormone shifts can be very....um...interesting too. Sometimes to the good, and sometimes not.
I know you are thinking that you are too young for thoughts of menopause, but the hormones can start shifting years before the rest of the symptoms kick in.
Looking back, I don't recall any lessening of desire, maybe it will come, We are only sixty and married for thirty years.
2007-11-10 00:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women hit their sexual peak in their late 30's to early 40's. What you are going through is totally normal. Congratulations on the 25 years and still going strong.
2007-11-10 00:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course. Many reasons why you may like sex more now than you used to::
Maybe you are no longer afraid of getting pregnant.
Maybe the kids no longer interrupt you.
Maybe the kids are no longer home as much or at all.
Maybe your husband is performing better.
Maybe you (and your husband) have learned which sex acts you like best.
Maybe your body "enjoys" sex more due to physical changes or experience.
Maybe, maybe, maybe. So don't worry about it. Enjoy it.
2007-11-10 00:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by BC 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A friend of mine told me that, when his wife hit around 40, it was like getting a 2X boost to the libido.
He's not sure why, and doesn't really care, as they are both enjoying it, from what little I know about it. More power (or something) to them.
2007-11-10 01:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you squirt?
i found out that older women that love sex are capable of gushing, or 'squirting' which is part of an intense orgasm.
the only drawbacks of chicks squirting, more than once in a lovemaking session, is the mess it makes on the bed
other than that, good luck to you and your sex life.
2007-11-10 03:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋