want to have an abortion?

Question

want to have an abortion but want it to be natural is there something i can take or do to miscarry?

i was on birth control pills and got pregnant somehow, now i want an abortion. i already have 2 children and i'm a single parent and just cant deal with another. what exactly happens with an abortion how is it done?

Answer 1

Be very careful talking about abortion. YA has deleted accounts of people that went into less detail than some here do.

Ignore the hateful responses. I'll believe they are sincere when they offer to adopt the child.

Answer 2

I am an herbalist and while there are herbs & other ways of inducing labor they are not safe. They can cause internal bleeding and death to the mother as well as, birth defects in the child, should the method not work.

If you are set on inducing abortion do so with a qualified physician. Taking this into your own hands can damage you, the fetus and impair your ability to carry children in the future.

I believe it is healthy to have sex even when you do not want children. I understand you tried a method of birth control that did not work.If you do not wish to have more children in your lifetime, I suggest sterilization. Again, you must use a doctor for this, however, you would not have to worry about future pregnancies.

The way an abortion is done is that the cervix is dialated while you are under either general or spinal anesthesia. They generally suction out the fetus once you are dialted or they may do a scraping of the uterine walls-it all depends on how far along you are.

There is also a pill that can be taken that will induce miscarriage. Depending on how far along you are this can be pretty painful.

Answer 3

well let me tell you that an abortion hurts natural if you can go to sleep i will recommend for you to go to sleep! i got an abortion due to i was really sick and couldn't take off from work and i was afraid of getting fired! Long story short))) I went to the clinic they ask me to fill out the paper with all my information! Then i took a urine sample so they can make sure i was pregnant or the proof of pregnancy from the doctors. So then i got my blood drawing i had to sit back in the waiting room while other people who were getting the same thing done was looking at each other! Next, they called me into the office to speak to me and to make sure i know procedure! They showed me the tool they were going to use to suck the baby out ( its almost the same like getting a pap but not so much ) So then they ask you to sign off on the paper and send you back to the waiting room! Okay next is the final call back! They take an ultra-sound to see how fall along you are and to see where the baby was excatly at. Okay so you take off all of your clothes and next is the process......
you scoop fall off of the bed, they give you a needle to numb your body which doesnt numb anything! Then they use this vacum like thing to suck it out! The pain is so bad it feels like something pulling and it hurts so bad any other question just e-mail me and i will be glady to answer


everyone here is going to give you advice just take it as just that!! Do what is best for you and no one can judge you excpt for God good luck and i wish u well

Answer 4

My friend had an abortion recently and she was so set on having it as soon as she found out that she was pregnant, I was so pissed off with her and tried so hard to talk her out of it. She went through with it but as a mate i stood by her! I felt sick while i was waiting for her in the hospital, they take the girls in and its done in minutes, she came home a couple of hours later. 2 days later she was rushed to hospital as she was contracting where her body was trying to get rid of the "bits that they didn't remove". She now regrets it and wishes she would have thought about it seriously. People are so harsh on here! I don't agree with abortion at all but everyone is entitled to their own opinion on this. She is a single woman bringing up 2 children already! Yeah fair enough she should have been more careful. Maybe you should think about giving the child up for adoption as there are many people out there that can't have children, on the other hand there is so much help out there for single mum's these days. Just think really hard before you do anything, you can't turn back time.

Answer 5

I don't want to give the "recipe" here, but you can look it up on a yahoo search engine. However I don't advocate this. Depending on how far along you are, you may require a D&C and that would require a doctor regardless of what you want to do. Your best bet is to go to Planned Parenthood and discuss your options rather then trying to do it at home.

Answer 6

A so-called natural abortion is a bad idea. Not only is it extremely dangerous, it might not work and it may only damage the fetus. If you really want an abortion, contact planned parenthood. You can find your local planned parenthood by visiting www.plannedparenthood.org.

Answer 7

First of all, ignore those that came here only to judge you. They can't possibly understand what's going on in your life, and are only looking for a place to spew their ignorant ideologies in order to make themselves feel superior.

While I don't know you, it sounds like you want to end this third pregnancy so that you can continue to provide for your two children. In my opinion, this is an incredibly legitimate reason, and I support your decision (as well as your right to make it) fully.

Because you're doing this for your children, you don't want to ingest anything that could end up leaving you seriously injured or even dead. The only truly safe way to have an abortion is to do so under a doctor's care, whether by taking medication or with a D&C. I urge you to see a doctor so that you can do this in a way that is healthy for you, so that you can continue to care for your children. Good luck to you.

Answer 8

No.

If you want to have an abortion, have an abortion.

If you want to keep things "natural", keep them natural and stay pregnant, and maybe you'll "get lucky" and miscarry.

Trying to force a miscarriage without having a professional perform an abortion is neither natural nor is it smart. You could really hurt yourself, in addition to losing your baby.

Answer 9

Don't listen to the people telling you that you are a murderer. They are close minded idiots.

The herbalist is right. Go to a hospital. But before, pray a lot and think a lot. Good luck.

Answer 10

Another very rare case of pregnancy on the pill, hm. there is the mornign after pill you can take up to 72 hours after sex, its not natural and there is no natural way unless you have a miscarriage, if you force a miscarriage it wouldnt be concidered natural.
You want to know how abortions are, take a look at this
http://www.abortiontv.com/Methods/themanyways.htm

if you took a look at the link, its not a pleasant site, and i didnt give the link to help her out, it shows horrifying pictures and or videos on procedures done with abortions and would hopefully change the mind of anyone who wants to get one done. Im against abortions.