I am attractive funny everything is fine but when i get closer to a man i cant talk im getting shy and when i bigen to talk i am talking stupit things,what should i do?
2007-11-10 00:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-11-10 01:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by behairded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax more and when you do talk, pause and think clearly about what you want to say. Do not make it complicated. Direct the conversation to things you enjoy and know something about.
You sound like a woman many men would enjoy to be with.
Take your time, let the man talk, relax, you will be fine!
2007-11-10 00:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sparty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that perhaps your subconscious self drives you to react in this particular fashion.
You need to first become aware and able; to consciously guide your conscious self; about those qualities and abilities; which you feel as the reasons of shyness and stupidity in self of self and by self; and later work hard to know and adopt them as that purpose of self for which you wish to be near that person.
Its all about realizing, gaining and knowing your own specific purpose for being near to the other; and about using such knowledge to guide your self; but strictly from the vision and the point of view of the other only; and not of that of your own self.
Shyness is that quality of nature of self which it itself uses to drive and motivate the mind within to develop abilities and willingness of learning by self and for learning new things in it self.
Likewise; stupidity is the inability of the knowledge of the mind of self to comprehend and to know those qualities and abilities which can help the self to behave and deal and interact properly and righteously with situations out side.
It is the primary duty and responsibility of self to guide and help the self in removing the shortcomings of self and for improving the qualities and abilities of the nature and mind of self.
Its a tedious task; but will nevertheless make things not only easier for both but also effective and result oriented as well.
2007-11-10 01:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by ts@greenpastures 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait to be near men when you have matured enough to talk with them as equals.
2007-11-10 01:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace your 'stupidity'.
2007-11-10 00:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Miss De Vill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should go back to school......i bet i know whats turning them off.....
2007-11-10 00:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋