go out with a charming person uve met on the internet ?
or would u want more substance to the relationship b4 u committed.
realistic and objective answers.
do u also believe that one can be infatuated by one they have only communicated w on the net?
2007-11-09 23:25:28 · 5 answers · asked by cleo s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what if this person was on another continent, would u or wouldnt u follow it up?
2007-11-09 23:40:55 · update #1
this crazy thing called love...
2007-11-10 00:15:53 · update #2
and if the heart leads me to the wrong place....what abt logic...
2007-11-10 00:19:15 · update #3
I would not GO ANYWHERE with a person I "met" on the internet, no matter how charming they seem. Have you not seen the news lately?
A person can pretend to be anyone, anything they choose when they're on line. Girls are DYING because they believed what someone told them on the internet. Don't take a chance.
2007-11-10 00:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I certainly would go out with someone I've met on the Internet. I've done it, actually. Just make sure that it's to somewhere public, and that one of your friends or family knows where you're going, just in case!
I'm not sure what you mean "would you want more substance to the relationship before you committed." You're just committing to a meeting, not marriage, right? What harm can that bring? If it doesn't work out, then nothing lost. And how would you get more substance in the relationship if you didn't meet in person? Unless you mean just chat for a longer period of time.
I think the Internet is a good place to meet people for relationships. Yes, there are some jerks out there who pretend to be something they aren't, but usually it's pretty easy to figure those ones out, and move on. It's better than meeting people at a bar or something. You're forced to communicate online, there aren't any other distractions. And if they can't keep a conversation going online, then how are they going to keep one going when you're together in person?
And yes, I believe it's easy to become infatuated with someone you're only communicating online with.
2007-11-10 07:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by hlk_cupcake147 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's safe. Some people can be trusted but some people aren't. There are people on the net who might just be pretending to be someone they're really not or maybe they're a totally different person. There are also people who are very good at telling lies and all that. I know people who were victims of those kinds of situations. There are some who'd want to meet up with you but they're actually attempting to kidnap you or something (there's 1-out-of-10 chances of that happening but I wouldn't risk it). Although sometimes you can't help falling in love even if you know it's not right.
2007-11-10 08:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by mamoRii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'd go out with them, but only in a public place. Next I'd probably take them to a friends party or BBQ. They are less likely to turn out to be whacko's if they are ok with meeting your friends. I would want more substance to the relationship before I committed - absolutely! and yes, you could be infatuated with someone over the net... it happens all the time. So proceed, but do so with caution. I hope he doesn't turn out to be a whacko and is a really nice guy in the flesh.
2007-11-10 07:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by violet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart
2007-11-10 08:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by daz r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋