is anal sex supposed to hurt?:S?

Answer 1

Not if it's done right.

It requires a lot of lube and a good hard wiener!!!

Answer 2

Well,
Anal sex can hurt, but it can be safe and pleasurable as long as you and your partner do it right, meaning taking the time out to make sure she's got the proper lubrication and you also go nice and slow while entering her.

It can be quite pleasurable if done right because the anus is basically a bundle of nerve endings that are extremely sensitive, so if done right your partner can have multiple orgasms. Now onto the disadvantages, if you rush her into it and it hurts or she's just not that into it, those can be huge turn offs for future encounters for the "dark side" lol.

I would recommend looking up anal sex and how to do it, ya know do's and dont's and go from there. Hope this helps out.

Answer 3

I don't know about "supposed to," but unless you are a masochist, you should not engage in any sexual activity that it painful for YOU. You do not have to agree to anal sex, and if a guy wants to get his kicks at the expense of your pain, then get out of the relationship immediately, because he's an abuser and it will only get worse.

Answer 4

Sex is never supposed to hurt (unless you're into things way too kinky for me).

Anal sex requires lots of lube, and a gradual, gentle approach. Turnabout is fair play - if he's going in your back door, you should be allowed to put your own fingers, toys, or penis (if you have one) in him, too. It will give him a lot more respect for the importance of going gently.

Answer 5

no longer employing lube and not commencing sluggish in anal intercourse is undeniable dumb. in case you at the instant are not faking your question, your bf is comparatively nicely endowed, he went pumping from the commencing up, you probably did no longer use lube and you extremely did no longer sense any discomfort, there could be something incorrect consisting of your sphincter. heavily. it relatively is designed to shutdown while a marginally thick merchandise (a penis or something) tries to return from the exterior, so if it did no longer, you may no longer be too happy. Chaces are, your bf is somewhat on the small section, you have been very comfortable (alcohol perhaps?) or your question is faux.

Answer 6

There are ways to loosen up and relax the sphincter muscles so that they don't resist the penetration and cause pain. Also use a lot ot lube.
It is good for the sphincter to tighten back up but when you want them to relax and allow the penetration, I suggest you do the following. I do this and know it works.
In the foreplay, I stimulate my man orally to get him nice and hard, while I'm doing this, I let him apply the lube to me. I instruct him to apply it with his forefinger and then use a gentle circular motion to loosen up the sphincter muscle and then when it becomes loose, insert the finger just inside, it will tighten back up but hold it there, it relaxes, then continue the penetration making the circular motion to further loosen it up. If he's really big, I have him lay back and I squat over him and slide down on him, that way I can control the speed and depth of the penetration. Once I'm all the way to the base and he feels so good, then I writhe and wiggle on it to hit that magic spot, mine and his.
Use lots of lube, if you use a condom, put the condom on before you lube him up. Good luck, take it slow it is so delicious that way.

Answer 7

When done right, you might feel some pressure but it should not be painful.

To make sure things are done right use lots of lubrication and get yourself in a position where you feel very relaxed also get him to put a finger in there just to get you used to that feeling.

Answer 8

yes it may hurt if done without proper lubvircation of voillenelt yor without forplay withanus. however with proper way it does not hurt even less than vaginal sex

Answer 9

Not if you both know what you're doing.
If you are on the receiving end there are techniques to prevent the pain. Once you learn these it's fantastic.

Email me if you want (I'm gay)

Answer 10

It can, but I love it. Mainly depends on the care and experience of the giver.