How to deal with an old friend who changes over summer and starts insulting you out in public?

Question

Ok so here is this guy who has been my friend for about 2 and a half years and he always used to flirt with me, but then again he flirts with any girl he likes a little, and we dated a few people who we had introduced to each other. Then this year we kind of started to see each other less due to all the 'ex' s among our close friends. But the thing is, I can't think of anything I did to offense him, but almost whenever we are in the same room, he needs to talk about how ugly I am! To be honest I am more shocked than offended, I have no idea why this guy, who wanted to even date me once, and was so close to me-we even slept in the same bed on a few occasions-, and was so good to me, compliments and all, has suddenly turned into an insulting machine! Could it be just that he thinks I am of no more use to him? But why the insults? I haven't changed at all, and he was always rude like that to girls and guys around us, but why me now? anyone to recognize or analyze this type? what to do

Answer 1

smile then punch him

Answer 2

Unfortunately some guys think its called a sense of humour and don't see it as insulting others at all, why don't you sit down with him on your two own somewhere quiet and tell him how you feel about these comments hes making about you, ask him why he suddenly has to be like this with you after been friends for so long, he maybe doesn't even realise hes been rude and hurtful to you at all, hope you get things sorted, good luck.

Answer 3

Sounds like a prick.

Did YOU end it? If yes, then this could be his rather childish revenge.

If you can stand the confrontation, next time he does it, challenge him. If he does it to everyone you may also suddenly have a whole roomful of people on your side. Ask him why he has just said that and watch him quirm. Or say very loudly back something along the lines of him over compensating for his small penis. That ought to shut the mutherfukker up.

Answer 4

It could be 1 of 2 things Either he has just grown apart from you & now you need to do the same or with all the exs and friends maybe there is some backstabbing going people will talk & if its exs it wont be nice talk you should maybe rethink your friends i keep mine to a minimum for such reasons

Answer 5

maybe , he just wants you to notice him again ( he believes insulting you would awaken whatever emotions you're having for him ...that if ever you will confront him about what he is currently doing to you , he might tell you what he has on mind and what his motives really are.
but be cautious.if , after all, you realized he is not the type that worth having friendship with , refrain from communicating with him.That way he will get your message and that is he's just below you level and he is least of what you have in..
I mean how could you let yourself get affected so much by a man who doesn't respect you for as it shows, what he is doing when he's insulting you is way too below any form of disrespect.Don't let him step over you.He doesn't have the license to do it.Don't act like a doormat.
This is not about how good you were together yesterday,it is about how he is hurting you now

Answer 6

#a million, all and sundry is ex's for a reason. #2, blending too a lot with ex's is a dumb theory, so blending with too many ex's too a lot is even dumber. i think of one does this with the assumption, that those ex's will no longer be able to recover from them, so one might desire to be able to apply the ex while mandatory. Or that this makes them specific in a friendship. wager what?, what's over is, over. i could wager you are the guy who ends the relationships, then grants this "ex" the privelage of your friendship, females usually think of it rather is a few super honour. the guy might desire to have had hopes of having lower back jointly, and is merely mad at getting used. He became impolite to others on the grounds which you paid interest to them as a replace of him. Staying acquaintances with ex's hardly works, while became the final time you rather cared for somebody, have been given dumped and nevertheless hung around?, i already comprehend the answer to that one.

Answer 7

here is the deal.he is just being his usual rude and insulting self except now you are the recipient:the question is why now.you could ask him since u were once close and u treasure ur friendship but if i were u,i would just ignore him and c what happens

Answer 8

Probably he's upset at how your friendship as changed and is just trying to make himself feel better by hating you

or

well, he no longer sees you as his close friends, so just his old habit of being rude to girls.

Answer 9

Obviously, he got freaked out for some reason. Maybe he's falling for you and doesn't want to, so he's acting immature.

To get more answers to this, you should post it in the relationships category.

Answer 10

It could be that he's upset that you never game him the time of day, or he now finds you unattractive. Just go talk to him, and ask him why he's acting that way.

Answer 11

First if you care about him so you have to advise him in closed place and if you don't care leave him