everytime i have sex with my bf i have such a hard time getting wet and since he is rather big the little stuff that i did actually make just *puff* vanishies and we have to go back to the old lube but i dont want to use that anymore. it makes me feel really bad coz i cant actually make it myself so do you have a way to fix that problem? please and thank you oh and he says that licking the lube is no fun so that is another reason i would like to change that
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2007-11-09 21:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by Elena D 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You need to tell your boyfriend, "You must lick it before you stick it!" I think that'll help you out....
2007-11-13 18:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try going on the pill... Or if your allready on it, consider changing. I'm in the opposite position as you but i think it will help. Before i was on the pill, i was really really wet naturally, no problems there at all. Than i went on the pill to prevent pregnancy and i was literally as dry as a desert, i got sooo many bladder infections cos of it and it was a bit rough going in etc. Anyway i went to the doctors cos of this and my skin was ultra bad from the pill, so he put me on a really high dose of oestrogen in my pill and I'm pretty much back to how i was before, no more lube (thank god :D i know how you feel, it's such a nuisance)! Truly wet.
Point of the story, go to your doctor and ask him and suggest that you want to go on the pill (with a high oestrogen level- plus oestrogen is great for the skin too).
Good luck
2007-11-10 12:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I searched around and have 2 brands of lube that taste good:
"Wet" sugar free
"Embrace"
"Wet" is actually available from the local drug store. I like Embrace because it warms well in the microwave but it comes out as a jelly so it dose not drip so it's a lot easier (and fun) to apply.
These can both be ordered through Amazon.
2007-11-10 17:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are many women who produce a lot of juice and there are some who dont produce any at all, its like a biological diffenece so no sweat over it, but tell him to excite u more by licking ur clit or anything that gets u going. its just like some guys produce a lot of precum which is really good lube and some like me dont produce any.
2007-11-10 06:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by aviavraham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't get "wet" you should consult a doctor to ensure there is not a medical condition present. If it has not been a problem in the past, then the body does't like your new BF. good luck
2007-11-10 05:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ken L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either the bloke has no idea what he's doing or you're both too much in a hurry. Relax and take your time. make sure that you're really hot before he starts digging. That should happen brutally either. Remember that the longer it takes the better the orgasm.
2007-11-10 06:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can think of is spend extra time with 4play maybe it is something wrong too so maybe see your doctor next time you need to have something done or your there.
sorry i am not much more help for you
but also i would be incline to ask this in the woman's health too as they might have more of an idea then us :)
Good luck
2007-11-10 06:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt turn you on much, or is in too much of a hurry. Slow down, and if you need to, get edible lube.
2007-11-10 05:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Peter H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iagree with some of the others spend more time on foreplay
2007-11-10 17:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do more and more forplay. when you have to do sex in evening start thinking about it form th emorning and make you r mind ready. assume that you will feel great palsure and think about it all the day. it will help
2007-11-10 06:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋