On Halloween a guy I know said he wanted to dress as a girl. He asked if I would help him. I liked him and thought it would be fun. So I helped him get a costume and a wig. He came to my house and I put some makeup on him and did his hair, He actually looked cute. So I started putting more complete makeup on him and some earrings and jewelry. Now he really looked cute! So I got him to wear one of my bras and panties, and the stockings and hi heels we bought. I also put pink French press on nails him. I had fun making him look like a glam girl! He did look like real girl. Very pretty and feminine too. We went to a party and a club and had allot of fun.
Now we have become BF and GF! Today he asked me to dress him up as a girl again. So I did and we even went shopping and stuff. I thought it was allot of fun!
What do you think? Is this going too far? Have any suggestions or advice?
2007-11-09 21:43:37 · 13 answers · asked by prettiestgirliegirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As long as you're both enjoying it, absolutely. More power to you for being an open-minded girl.
2007-11-09 22:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sola_Balisane 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It also depends on the context. With clubs, shopping etc... sure it's a lot of fun... people dress in whatever makes them feel alluring. Plus, dressing in clothing and giving off an attitude you would not normally have is part of the club scene. If you are having fun, more power to you. Have you heard of the movie Tootsie? Well Dustin Hoffman, in researching the role, went so far as going to his son's P.T.A. meeting in character. But no one imagines he's transgender. But I wouldn't suggest meeting your parents or his like that. It's a question of knowing your limits.
2007-11-10 00:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lance D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to help your boyfriend dress-up as a girl, if he wants to dress as a girl more often, then he needs to learn how to dress-up himself as a girl. I don't think you've gone too far, I had a couple of girlfriends who actually wanted to dress me up as a girl & that was before they knew I like to crossdress. My wife is supportive & enjoys having a girlfriend around the house too. The best advice I can give you is to keep having fun & communicate with each other, now you can really start to have fun together. Now you can have slumber parties, makeover parties, girls night out, girls weekend away, the possibilities are endless. I wish you the best & I'm going to add some links for crossdressing & transformation services.
jk
2007-11-09 22:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by J 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy wants to dress in women's clothes, it does NOT mean he is gay. Just because he wears women's clothing does not make him want to be with men. Many men wear some articles of ladies wear and NEVER have thought of the same sex. It just means he wants to wear soft silky clothing.
To answer your question, NO this is not going too far as long as both of you are OK with it. What two adults do is no body's business. Enjoy yourselves!!!
2007-11-10 17:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sheerhose 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He might be a lesbian... and I'm serious... talk to him get him to open up about the reasons why he likes to dress up... he might just like the clothes and make up(which a lot of straight men) or he might have bigger issues like transgender dysphoria
2007-11-10 05:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by ~Becks~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have gone too far. The test is would he rather see himself in stockings and lingerie or you. Some women never wear stockings and lingerie for their man so they displace their interest to themselves. Start wearing stockings and garter belts around him, I have never seen a guy not get excited by them on a nice looking girl. If he is more interested than wearing them himself than attacking you, you have your answer.
2007-11-10 06:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
actual, there is no longer something incorrect with it, and there are a variety of of clarification why many adult adult males and women individuals relish crossdressing, or helping their mate crossdress. adult adult males for instance, in many cases are looked apon through society as having to be dominant and robust, so that they search for threat-free haven each and every from time to time, through creating themselves look like women individuals, causing them to alleviate pressure, because at the same time as they are like that, they dont must be dominant or sturdy. i have absolutely tried crossdressing, its no longer really my cup of tea, yet I nonetheless do it on particular events, for instance, my spouse and that i are going to gay delight this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days with me crossdressed. all and sundry who thinks that that is a topic is basically narrow minded, and must be exceeded over. I absolutely have friends that are presently present procedure the technique of genital reassignment or in otherwords, practise their sex variations. see, i'm a instantly male, yet I do relish dressing up as a lady, basically now unlikely out into public like that, specially because i stay in a small city the position all of us is familiar with all of us. in any case, i ought to talk for hours in this challenge... wish i helped one way or the different.
2016-10-23 23:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by cuccia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's into it, and you're okay with it, have fun!
I've known a few straight guys into it... good for them! I'd love to have a b/f I could do that with (assuming I stick with boys, but that's a seperate issue).
2007-11-10 08:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kara J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend likes me to dress up like a woman sometimes. Others he likes me to remain a boy but wear women's lingerie.
I am not into it per se, but I really like his reaction if you know what I mean.
Some of my friends say I am a sellout or that he is making me his girlfriend.
It is really fun to be his boyfriend so who cares?
2007-11-09 22:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy when my wife dresses me in woman clothing
2007-11-09 23:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Wayne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋