how could they explain to their future husband that they lost it and how the future husband will handle it?
2007-11-09 19:47:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is actually best or from my research I believe this to be true. read the information I posted below. I believe loosing your virginity before marriage is best.
Virginity was very important back many hundreds of years ago when family blood lines were important. To prove the new bride was a virgin she at that time she had to show it on her consummation bed with her husband. He had to know just in case she was pregnant when she married him. He then had grounds to divorce her then and there. Today this is not a problem. The virgin thing is blown completely out of proportion by religious people today.
2007-11-10 01:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't HAVE to explain to their future husband anything if they don't want to. There is no way to tell whether a woman is a virgin on her wedding night or not unless she has given birth. Not even her gynocologist would know. Not all women bleed during the first intercourse (I didn't) Not all women feel excrutiating pain (I felt a minor discomfort, nothing more). The only way to tell is by a full exam and if the uterus showed signs of a pregnancy that would be the telling point. However if she has never been pregnant there is no way to tell whether a woman is a virgin or not.
Obviously Kamal doesn't know any U.S. women..LMAO...Besides who is to say the woman WANTS to ever get married. Why should she go without knowing the joy of sex simply because she CHOOSES not to marry someone like Kamal?
2007-11-09 21:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I don't owe an explanation to anyone. I'm not a virgin because I choose not to be and if a guy has a problem with that he can move on. I don't regret any of my sexual experiences and I'm certainly not going to apologize to anyone for it. The question should be how can a girl put up with a guy like this who outs more value on virginity than on the person inside? Get back in your time machine and set it for the 1950's...or better yet the 1850's. That's where this question belongs.
2007-11-13 06:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's world..alot of " future" husbands know that 90% they will get a girl that is NOT a virgin and they are okay with it. The question you should ask is .. " how do i tell my future husband im a virgin?". Its very uncommon if a girl is a virgin past 21 yrs of age, unless of medical or religion purposes. Dont worry about it. I say that you are so worried about how they react..what about the guy? He probly isnt a virgin yet you are worried what he will think about you having sex before marriage? jeez....
2007-11-09 19:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be sure you are ready to handle the responsibility of having sex . There are alot of terrible diseases out there and plus you need to make sure you are doing it because you want to and not because someone is pressuring you . I dated my husband for 3 years before we made love . I was 23 years old and I do not regret waiting . If the guy really loves you he will wait until you are ready .
2007-11-09 19:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Saharwi Wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would prefre a virgin also. Today society influences women to sleep with alot of men. If you want a virgin go after it and find. It wil take some work. I believe a marriage will work out if a women is pure, also a man. But mainly the women because the man wil respect her for that.
2007-11-09 20:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by chrisdoss125 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its bad to loose their virginity before marraige, as their future life when they get married will be only a hell. No males probably 99% can tolerate such statements from their wife.
they would have enjoyed till max. level, but when it comes to the other side of coin def.not. as for everything in future if wife is late or gone out he will never have peace of mind which will spoil both of their life.thats the fact.
2007-11-09 20:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by kamal m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what culture you are from but if you haven't spoken to your future husband about another man has been inside you first and not for true love you're going to hurt him so.
2014-02-15 09:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is of no signifince... but to lose your virginity mto other then your future husband and want to tell him is tacky.. Just dont mention it... And dont be asking him... If he wants to volunteer then so be it... If he asks you then tell him... But always tell him h4 is the best even if he isnt.. Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-11-10 02:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it be "bad" for a woman and a sign of "manliness" for a guy? If a guy is a stud and macho because he is not a virgin then a woman should have the same opportunities without criticism. Just beware of pregnancy and disease.
2007-11-09 20:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋