i'm 21 years old and i'm in love with a boy of 20( exactly one year younger than me)we love each other so much...we are perfectly matching in thoughts.He doesn't mind this at all and we are willing to get married in 6 years after finishing our university period...so will this age gap be a problem to a successfull marriage life?
i mean physicall,and socaially..because many guys marry girls younger than them...so what do you think of this?
2007-11-09 19:09:07 · 16 answers · asked by Natasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is no age gap between u and him, age is aging for body and not for feelings, experience is aging for your thinkings and feelings and love when exsists doesn't matter how old & how experienced u and him are.
2007-11-10 02:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Words_Unspoken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no problem with a year or two either way, it is when there is 10 or more years difference, in later life if there is a big age difference, children suffer, and the couple suffer as what a 45 yr old person wants to do a 55 and older is finding it harder to do, you and you alone will know if this person is the right person if you are going to wait for 6 yrs, you will know each other a lot better in that time, and of course you do not want to find out in 6 years you have wasted the best 6 years of your life,
2007-11-09 19:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 34 and my husband is 33 years old. I am a year older than my husband. We knew each other from high school. Age is never really an issue between the two of us. What is really important is that there is COMPATIBILITY, LOVE, TRUST AND RESPECT. There may be disagreements and quarrels but try not to make an issue on small things. For marriage to work, remember the 3 C's: COMMUNICATION, COMMITMENT AND COMPROMISE. Good luck.
2007-11-09 19:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by aileen a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see here my husband is 23 and I'm 35 he is younger then myself and so far age hasn't been a issue, there has been other issues in our marriage.. some of the likes and dislikes but nothing to beat your self up about .. but "ONE" year honey no one would even really know if you didn't tell them...all i know to tell you is if your Happy and Your in love hold onto it..because life is to short to let True love pass you by.....its a great thing , by the way me and my Husband has two wonderful little boys both are one year old. every marriage has its ups and downs no one marriage is 100%
2007-11-09 19:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only one year.....anyway, if you know each other well and get along and can communicate on a deep level, there should be no problem. It will definitely help to discuss marriage issues before hand, e.g. do you want to have kids? how many? how soon? who should do the finance? will both work? what do you see yourself doing in 5 years? do you get along with the family? do you have the same religion? things such as that are good to discuss, so you don't assume anything and then regret your decision later.
2007-11-09 19:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. What's important is you love each other and you get along great. My bf is 3 years younger and nothing is wrong with that.
2007-11-09 19:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by antsmarching_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year is nothing. My missus and I are two years apart - were dating before we were your age and it has never been a concern.
Just get on with it - but perhaps put the long term plans on the backburner - you are too young to plan that far ahead!
2007-11-09 19:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 24, I am 35. I think for most people ( not us) it can work & age is only a number. 1 yr. is hardly enough to fret about!
2007-11-09 19:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by luvlemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with an age difference and one year is hardly one at all.
2007-11-09 19:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that you are both way to young to get married. give it at least 5 years and stay friends and if you still feel the same way about each other then get married.
2007-11-09 19:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋