So basically I am gay and he is gay. I met him over myspace and we have chatted over AIM. So, when I want to talk to him, he is kind of cold with me I guess. when I try to ask him things or just talk, is usually doing other stuff (I think); and when he answers me he writes just a few lines. I am trying to get to know him, but i mean WTF. Does it mean he is not interested on me?, does he think he is too hot? (well he could be better), is he playing hard to get?, seriously i dont know.
2007-11-09 18:23:43 · 9 answers · asked by Questionnaire 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Alot of homos are full of themselves lol, if you show them some interest they think the ball is in their court and play hard to get. Either that or he feels hes too hot for you and doesnt wanna be mean and not reply at all so he replies with short cold answers hoping youll get the hint and play 20 questions with someone else.
2007-11-10 08:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by W S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to tell with what you have given us. It's one of two things:
1- He's not interested
2- He's just a busy bee
Try a few more times to get his attention. Playing hard to get has it's limits. If he is truly interested, he will respond. If he isn't interested he'll just keep blowing you off.
2007-11-09 18:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably isn't interested.
If he were, he would make more of an effort.
Don't write him for a few days and see where it takes you. If he is interested, he will call you or write. If not, move on little fishy. It's a big sea out there and there are lots more where he came from.
2007-11-09 18:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested AT ALL. People make time ot chat with someone thye have an interest in.
Stop messaging him and try to make some other friends and forget about this one.
2007-11-10 13:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by booksavvy123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats difficult. Its online, and its hard to tell. First did you find him or did he find you? How long have you been talking? Is he truly who he says he is? But I think he may just be looking for people to talk to, maybe out of boredom. Good luck buddy.
2007-11-09 18:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by mikejbau_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a problem with these Online Flings, because you can't go anywhere beyond the keyboard or monitor screen, there isn't a whole lot for them to go anywhere, so they just eventually fizzle out.
2007-11-09 18:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hadley N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST IMAGINE YOUR SELF IN THE DAYS BEFORE COMPUTERS... IN SANFRANSICO IN THE GAY BATH HOUSES... HOW MEN WOULD MEET IN WASHROOM AND MAKE A HOLE IN THE WALL ..THEN STICK YOUR PRIVATE PARTS THROUGH AND AN STRANGER WOULD COME UP AND BASICALLY BUM HOLE YOU THROUGH THE WALL... WELL ITS THE SAME THING ITS AIDS ON LINE.....
2007-11-09 19:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Evidently he isn't that interested. Save yourself some heartache and just move on and find someone else who will appreciate you.
2007-11-09 19:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he's not interested.Or maybe he's just busy with something.
Good luck mate
2007-11-09 18:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree Mu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat may hav happened is tht he found sum1 tht he rly likes. and he may b rly faithful so he's trying not 2 tlk 2 u, bcus he knos tht if he dos, he might cheat on the person tht he's w/
2007-11-10 02:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋