Crying is not a shame at all, but of course men try to control their emotions. Our education,our culture, whatever may be our ethnical or religious background, has taught us not to cry, because a man is expected to be strong and protective.
And in fact I don't think that a crying woman is more "normal" than a crying man.
Many women use the tears as a manipulation tool, while men usually cry for real.
2007-11-09 20:05:21
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I have always found it ough to cry. I didnt cry at either one of my parent funerals. Though every once in a while I'll drink too mch and have a breakdown and cry my eyes out about everything! So my answer is yes, everyone needs to let there emotions out. Unless you want to end up as screwed up as I am. Taking 2 different antidepressants and an anxiety pill.
2007-11-09 18:17:09
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answered by Clay K 1
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Men have as much right to cry as women. Of course, no one should cry all the time, but if the situation truly merits, then it's reasonable. I don't like to cry in front of other people, but not because I'm ashamed of it, just because I don't like to get all that fake sympathy. I admit it afterwards, more as a point of how deeply I felt about something.
2007-11-09 18:14:28
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answer #3
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answered by The Babe is Armed! 6
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hmm depends on the situation!!!
...I cried when I watched *cough* the Notebook, right after a break, very similar to the movie....ummmmm
after good movies guys can cry, after serious break ups I guess...... I rarely cry at funerals now though...If he's really happy too...I don't think there's anything wrong w/ it. Unless is like some kind of B*tch whining kinda cry....:D
2007-11-09 18:10:16
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answered by Trick23 2
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That stereotypical bullshit about men crying has to go. Men should be able to cry whenever they need to.
2007-11-09 18:11:24
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answered by DeCaying_Roses 7
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everyone crys sooner or later
we like to act strong in front of ppl
but in truth we cry
so i dont care if a guy crys or not
2007-11-09 18:10:17
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answered by The Black Knight 5
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ive seen ?s in here that made me cry as i answered them.
there is nothing wrong with it. i just dont do it in public or make an issue out of it. its a normal human release of emotions. any guy who says differently in my opinion is either a liar or has problems
2007-11-09 18:45:26
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answer #7
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answered by snafu 5
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I cry, so it's no big deal and if anyone makes fun of me for crying he is gonna cry too.
2007-11-09 18:12:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Crying is fine even for guys. Don't hold your emotions back.
2007-11-09 18:10:35
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answered by Buddy Hodor 7
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he better be crying over 1 of the following: Love(Love), Dreams, realizing Pain, the world's situation................on second thought the only reason a guy should be crying is over Love
2007-11-09 18:14:12
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answered by Max 3
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