Girl who stole my boyfriend smiles at me?

Question

My ex boyfriend of 5 years left me for this girl and now she smiles at me when she walks by. She also smiles at my friends. My question is what should i do as i pass her?....which is inevitable cause we go to the same college. I'm trying to be a nice person about the whole thing but it takes all the strength i have not to punch her in the face...lol. Also out of curiosity why do you think she's doing it....does she feel guilty about it? or is she just that evil?

oh my boyfriend was 5 years long.....it's been about 7 months since the break up.

He didn't just leave me for this girl......he cheated on me with her and her knowing about me. He only left when i found out.

Answer 1

She's being mean. ugh.

One good turn deserves another: When she passes by, smile slyly and say to her, "Good lu-u-uck!"

If she wants to know why you said that just say, "Glad it's you and not me!" And say nothing more. You don't owe her any explanation.

ha. Let her guilt work its magic on her.

You should be glad he's with her and not you. You deserve better.

Answer 2

Stole your b/f?
You mean while you were gone, she broke into your place and stole him against his will and he cannot get away from her?
Think about it hon.
She didnt "steal him", he LEFT you for her because he preferred her to you.It doesnt mean you are bad or anything it just means he believes he is more compatible with her.I know you hurt but give it time, you'll get over it.She may be embarrassed and not know what to do other than smile.You be big and tell her even though it hurt to lose him, youd rather him be with someone he is happy with than to settle for someone he someone that may not make him as happy while he wishes he was with someone else.
That would make you totally unselfish, because when a person realizes their feelings have changed it would be detrimental to both if the other stayed around just to not hurt the other and the other one was emotionally bullying the other to stay out of guilt.
After all, you may have been together 5 yrs, but you werent married and hopefully there are no children involved.
Hang in there, youll meet the right man one day hon.

Answer 3

When you walk pass her you should smile and let her know that what she think she did was nothing but a lesson learned.
She's doing it because she thinks she has something when she doesn't BC who throws a 5 yr relationship away with an immature girl. An I'mmature man. No she doesn't feel guilty but im pretty sure he does. She's also evil. LOL

Answer 4

Maybe she was doing you a favor..only time will tell. After all, she didn't use a gun to make him go did she? It would be easy to punch her lights out, but would that really change the situation? All that would do is make you feel better...but only for a moment. Thomas Jefferson said that time heals all wounds. Use this time to think about your future when you finish college. Painful as things are now, things will get better down the road.

Answer 5

I say stand tall, chest out like "I Know I'm The S**t! Not only should you smile at the Bit*h, but say, Hi, How are you? Throw that hoe for a loop! That's the best revenge- not giving a Fu*k! Once she knows you moved on, the allure of wanting what you had will dissipate! She will wonder, damn? Is he SUCH a loser she ain't even trippin'!

If all else fails say "*****!!!! What the Fu*k is you smiling about!????" and molly-wop that trick upside her head!!

Answer 6

Who cares how she feels, shes the dummy that ended up with the unfaithful jerk. Shes going to get what she deserves soon enough... as soon as he finds the next girl.

You should laugh and chuckle when you see her, because shes not got a good guy, shes got a guy that isnt faithful.. hes going to split and leave her just the same.

What you need to do is find a much better guy...one that isnt the straying type...

Answer 7

She doesn't feel guilty. The next time that she smiles at you, smile back and laugh a little. She won't like your reaction and it will bug her to try to figure out why you are laughing. It should cause her to stop smiling at you.

Answer 8

iabsolutely hate this, but yes she is being a little beyotch. so go find her ex and flirt.... or you can ignore her. sometimes one nasty dig can make you feel goood after an ex has moved on. you need to find out some nasty secrets about her and then smile back.. find someone who also hates her too and then go after miss hoodrat.......then after your done, leavethem alone get a makover and enjoy life. or take a guy friend to where they always are and for three days straight lilock and dance in front of them...

Answer 9

if i were you, i would smile back, say hi, talk to her and just be nice. she will be very pissed off at your behaviour..

by smiling at you she is looking at a negative reaction from you.
do not, as hard as it is, do not ever allow he to get it!

be nice, that shows that your above her class, which i do believe you are :)

i doubt she feels guilty, i know this may sound harsh, but would you feel guilty if a guy left his gf of 5 years and went out with you... or would you feel amazingly egoistic about it... ???

she may feel slightly guilty about it, but she probably likes him, and its most likely selfishly ignorant... so it doesnt matter

just be nice

Answer 10

I smile at my enemies all the time. Sometimes I even say hello. {I even smile at their friends}

The best thing you can do is smile back and hope she takes a tumble down the stairs.

I'd say the chances of her feeling guilty (until it happens to her) are slim to none.