I've been married for 14 years. I got bored one night and went to a chat room on yahoo IM. The room I chose was "married but looking." I know I sound like a bad, bad wife, but I was just so bored and feeling more like a piece of furniture than a woman or wife. My husband and I have been having alot of problems due to moving from L.A. to Las Vegas, money, our house, and just about everything in our life. I went in the chat room and all these guys wanted to talk to me. I know, it is looserville USA, but it felt good. It did cause a fight later that night. Am I unusual or has anyone else gone to such obvious wrongs for attention. I know I was selfish....
2007-11-09 16:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would avoid chat rooms in general as it all sounds good chatting but you have no idea who you are chatting with or that person backgroud or their real intention in chatting..
I find anwers much better and constructive. If you are bored - try hooking up with friends,family.
2007-11-09 16:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unusual, just a bad idea. This is especially important if you are sharing a Yahoo account or you arent computer savvy enough to cover your tracks.
Its not unusual to want attention, especially if you arent getting any at home. And, yes you will find the waters teaming with sharks just waiting for a hapless first timer to stumble into to waters of such a chat room. They arent all losers, but most are.
Evaluate why it is that you chose THAT chat room and not some other that would also describe you or fit your interests. That particular room probably wasnt the best choice to just chat.
2007-11-09 16:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never Ever give out Real Personal INformation! Did you receive documentation about each of the people in that room? How about the person that demanded it from you? Keep in mind there are a lot of people who get "religion" while being in prison for assorted crimes. How do you know that they aren't part of the chat room? Stay away from that room completely and look for association within your own church. There must be gatherings, group bible studies etc..., sign up at your local church. Never give specific personal info out on the internet chat rooms.
2016-05-29 01:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wrong as long asyou are not planning to get hooked and maybe end up falling for one of the guys. there would always be lots of flirting in these chat rooms but its just cyber they cant even see you so its not wrong to try to find something that would make you feel good. like for me i'd been down for years and when i did joined a chat site its like i'm not that ugly after all, my stories are not the worst true to life stories that you can hear, i also felt so blessed in the end and was able to reach out and help other who needs some advices....maybe im lucky i met lots of good people who helped me get some of my self confidence back...
2007-11-09 17:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by silly me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if he were chatting with women? Its not wrong to want t attention (I do all the time) but did you ever think of, oh i don't know working on things with him first? Maybe pick a different chat room next time.
2007-11-09 19:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you deal with people in chat rooms, you have no idea
what your dealing with. Everyone lies. Most of them forsure.
You could be talking to a kid, or a women. All relationships
have problems, life is great until something happens and
then we don't know where to turn. Turn to your husband.
Everything in chat rooms is just about sex, I know it's nice
to feel wanted and sexy, but it's how you feel inside about
yourself that counts. Not the present problems your having.
It will pass and try not to chat anymore.
2007-11-09 17:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for over 28 years and i go to the chat rooms alot and i am offended by you calling it looserville USA.I don't no if you have a mic.but i have talked to alot of wives who are just like us. Husbands are asleep in the next room and we are up all alone and bored.My husband moved me from my home in Maryland to Memphis then to Florida,i am so home sick plus my son decided to move back to Maryland so i feel like i am here all alone. My husband works 7:00am to 6:00pm sometimes longer,he eats dinner and we talk for a little while then he falls asleep,that's my day.
Your right about all the man wanting to talk to us but it seems like most of them are from India,and alot of solderers who just want an American female to talk to. American women are in big demand in the IM yahoo chat rooms,specially late at night. I like to go in the depression chat room, some want to talk dirty but you make it clear right from the start you don't talk dirty and they will either tell you good-bye or say they just need someone to talk to about their marriage. I have along list of guys i have been talking to for awhile now,if i think they are getting to serious i delete them. It's all fun and i see nothing wrong with it as long as you don't let yourself get to caught up in it.
2007-11-09 18:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you're talking about. I've been there myself, that extra marital attention does feel good. Just don't make it a habit. Before you know it, they will be trying to see you in person. And that's not good.
2007-11-09 17:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by sexyascanbe! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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you just went to the wrong chat room.
try one that's not so threatening to your husband.
theirs other ways to get attention.
2007-11-09 16:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by bluesky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey i know your thinkin to me, hey you wanna go back to that LA with me but im like hey you oooh heell no. hee hee. so just go tellin your husband you that your likin his pretty eyes en your liken his face then your give him big birthday surprise. get what im sayen??
i freakin LOVE YOU!!!
2007-11-09 16:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋