Do you find it hard to understand when celebs have trouble with romance?

Question

As if for some reason they shouldn't have them? If they didn't what would all the tabloids do?

Answer 1

I believe celebs are so insecure, ok they may love themselves, but they actually physically and mentally need the attention, excitement, and actively seek paps. for publicity, bad or otherwise. Look at Brittany Spiers, one way or another we will keep reading about her downfall and losing her kids through her chaotic life, so we are as guilty as them.
Romances are doomed if they get it on with another celeb., I mean Prince Charles was actually jealous of the attention Diana got, because his ego was hurt. Any normal man would have been so proud and recognised that she was immature and really believed in the fairy tale romance whilst he was older and having a mistress is not unusual for the aristos, but they usually keep it hidden - why do you think they have connection bedrooms doors!! If you are a beautiful woman, and famous, maybe even talented, it must be tempting and flattering to be saught out by more famous and handsome men, so a lot of their relationships are founded on who they are, what they perceive of themselves, when it all goes wrong the fairy tale ends because they probably don't know each other - like being broke, or tied to a boring dead end job. I find it hard to understand how star spangled couples last together. Look at Rod Stewart and the beautiful women in his life, but his present wife is grounded not like Rachel Hunter who loves herself. And of course this sells papers which we read because it gives us a taste of what being rich and famous is like, so when they have problems, we revel in it. I don't think Heather Mills has any grasp on reality yet I also believe her husband must have known about her past, because it was well documented long before he married her. Life may look glam. for them, but I wouldn't want it - I love privacy, but the money would be looovely! Once you get addicted to being a celeb, its a wonder any of them stay together. xx I love reading the gossip columns as I have a quiet life and they confirm that you can't buy happiness. It all boils down to money which ever way you look at it.

Answer 2

No not at all. If you think about it there under a micro scope if they go out. they can't live normal lives like we do. and it would take a strong person to hold it together and not freak out. So often they chose others in the same business who understand what its like. Also some choose as its the easiest way they can meet on set or making movies.

Its not like they can go out so easily to a place and pick up someone with out be hounded by fans or camera people or tabloids.. So makes sense many stay indoors and hidden yet when they do come out there always snapped up.

Mind you some stars want to get away from dating others in the business as some people are very competitive and care only about there own advantage so it would be each ones choice which they prefer i guess.

but no im not shocked or find it hard to understand when celebs have trouble with romance .They go through so much more than the average joe blow

Answer 3

Not being a celeb, being married to one or having known one, it's difficult to answer, but I'll give it a shot.

When celebs date other celebs, jealousy, infidelity are great causes. Gals, can you think about going home to your hubby after being paid to kiss Brad Pitt, George Clooney or another hunk? Dudes, same question for any hot actress or singer?

With the jealousy issue out of the way, celeb marriages are strained when one gets much more work than the other. Reese Witherspoon and Meg Ryan are good examples. When their husbands were out of work, they had to be the "female" of the relationship. It's quite emasculating being home all the time and having to rely on your wife for money.

If that pressure isn't enough, a celeb's private life is laid out to the public when they go out for a jog, vacation or anywhere else.

If a celeb and a "commoner" were to get married, and even celebs marry, the "wow" factor wears off quite quickly. What we see in the media, televisions, movies, music and commericals is quite different than what those people are quite different. A really sweet person in the movies can turn out to be a real child or mean or petty.

Celebs have it rough, but they choose their way of life. A few have been able to make it for 10+ years, but only if they're squeaky clean and very on the level.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

A lot of dynamics going on, money, drugs, cheating, status, jealousy, out-of-town, money, competition. All of the things the average relationship would not have to contend with. At least not all at the same time. I don't envy them. That is what keeps the tabloids going.

Answer 6

The circle of celebrities is very very small. Dating can be quite limited. As good looking most of them are, that doesn't say much about their values or integrity. Think about one of the hottest couples Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. As great as everyone thought their relationship was, he fell in love and impregnated his costar while being married to someone else. The temptations can be too great. I would say that it's far easier for male celebrities to find "love" rather than female ones.

Answer 7

Everybody has relationship problems at some point in their lives but not everyone has to have them in the full glare of the media spotlight. They crave publicity so should put up with it better when they get it. They can't have it both ways.

Answer 8

of cource I do. There is a huge borden of presure from the fans and the creepy stalkers I surprised they last a month. In my opinion all of the poperazzi should leave them alone.

Answer 9

there are absolutely loads of celebs who never get in the press....... clearly the way to be a star! these clowns who are in the papers everyday just get on my nerves!!

Answer 10

well they are Human we all have problem of some kind life is not perfect for any one