2007-11-09 13:39:50 · 23 answers · asked by jamiedoll77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First it was his myspace stuff which led to confrontation. Now its match.com & personals with search results emailed to him wkly. He said it was just for kicks-nuthin serious. Its just bad cause it makes u question yourself. From what i hear about other couples, i thought i was a pretty good wife-- just sucks in general. Thanks for all the input. I just hate the thought of starting over. I mean, the next step for him to take is an affair-right? And, in order to work through a problem, he's got to at least admit there is one. I dunno, it just SUCKS. Hate him, then love him, hate him, on the rollercoaster.
2007-11-09 14:05:05 · update #1
If he's doing this online then you should contact him anonymously and set up a date and then catch him red-handed. Then you will know for sure. That way you don't have to doubt whether he is telling you the truth, etc.
2007-11-09 13:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by BTB{06.22.09} 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You busted him. Tell him that you found out. Talk about it - ask whether he wants to break up. If not, then ask yourself whether you want to divorce after what you found. If not, then try to work on it. Think of what had made him search for such a relationship. Perhaps he is not getting enough from you. Or he is just a jerk getting into midlife crisis...
2007-11-09 21:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a fake profile with someone else's photo and answer him.After a few emails set up a date in a place with a motel out of town but close.You get to hear his excuses and then after he leaves you need one of your girlfriends to film it all.The most important part,clean out all the bank accounts move all assets to where he can't find them and then after you get him on film file for divorce.
2007-11-09 21:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a match for yourself very lose to home, start hiding $$$, let the bills get behind, let his laundry back up, move, turn off utiities, and leave him an email!!!
2007-11-09 22:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and point out that you know, seek counseling. if all fails seek divorce.
there should be a reason as to why he is doing so. its a poor a decision and he should have communicated with you about the problems that are there and what lacks in the marraige
2007-11-09 21:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sign up under an alias and agree to meet him somewhere, like 50 miles away. Boy, will he be in for a surprise!!!!
2007-11-09 21:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Move 101 miles away as quickly as possible!
2007-11-09 21:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by swtserenity43 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him or confront him, That is horrible, all you need to do is ask why and usually you'll know if its mean't to be. I hope it goes good for you <3
2007-11-09 21:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by SiCnGaged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before you go freaking out make sure its legit and not some advertisement. i get those up on my computer and in my email and have nothing to do with that crap
2007-11-09 21:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what you should do. Whatever you do - has to be your very own choice.
However - if it was someone I know ... he would be told to hit the highway immediately.
This will only go on .. if you allow it.
2007-11-09 21:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋