put videos of yourself on youtube? cuz he didnt like it when other guys hit on you.or would you say thats just a normal thing guys worry about? and let it go?
2007-11-09 13:34:34 · 41 answers · asked by jellybean 2 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's a normal thing for guys to worry about - and if you're girlfriend is underage, then it's a legitimate concern, because you don't want some creepy old dude using her image to get his jollies.
I think it just shows you care about her.
2007-11-09 13:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess it depends videos of what exactly... her stripping or just talking to the camera? Taping herself drunk or singing ridicolously to Britney Spears? You're going to have to be a BIT more specific than that :)
However, I do get where you both are coming from. Maybe she feels like youtube is her home and she like publishing videos, because it's like a diary for her to share with the rest of the world. On the other hand, if all she does is giggle and make silly remarks wearing skimpy clothes, ofcourse other guys would leave her flirty messages, and it's only natural you would feel annoyed about it.
You do have to realize though, that if she's cute guys will ALWAYS hit on her- via internet or face to face real life- and you won't be able to ALWAYS stop it from happening.
:) Hope I helped!
xxx
2007-11-09 13:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by femmestranger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a little controlling. But my boyfriend hates it even when I get a nice compliment on my picture on myspace. I'm SURE he'll HATE it if I post a video of myself on YouTube. Same thing when we're walking in public and a guy stares at me. He gets mad && aggravated and I didn't even do anything.
My understanding is that when a man has a girlfriend that he likes/loves/adores/cherishes.....he hates it when another man is attempting to get at what is HIS. Like I always tell my boyfriend what man or boy tried to give me a compliment or tries to sweet talk to me and he gets soooo mad and starts saying "Man I bet you they wouldn't try to talk to you if I was around!". "I hate it when people try to get at MY girl".
Its just jealousy. Its a cute thing....yea its just a YouTube...but a boy wouldn't want any other guy to look at his gal's face or anything WHAT-SO-EVER. And I would KNOW not to put a video of myself on there because then my bf would just get pissed off. Plus its not THAT important to have a video of yourself on the internet anyways.
To tell you the truth...I kinda like it. I feel loved. And also how would a girl feel if her boyfriend never cared about what she does? Its a good thing too I GUESS because in real life it shows that he's a little insecure and he's really cautious about doing anything bad because hes scared to lose.
2007-11-09 13:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt but it is a normal thing. when you have a relationship, you have got to trust that girl. if you know this then dont worry. try to tell this girl why you dont want her to do this and tell her how much you care and just dont want her to get hurt by others. tell her she made the ommitment to you and that you dont feel its rite. let her do what she feels is rite. and u know ur not the only guy that likes her. she probly has had guys hit on her a lot. the good news is shes still with you. i think it would be ok. hope evrything is ok between yout two. if you dont like my ideas than wait for more. dont wrry youll find an answer you like. good luck!!!
2007-11-09 13:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jayden L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a normal guy AND girl thing.
I can understand a guy liking it when other guys find their girl attractive, but to have the guys hitting on her and looking at her when she posts whatever kind of videos she has of her self on youtube... I don't know. I would not like that if I was a guy either.
If she doesn't care about your feelings, perhaps you should look elsewhere.
2007-11-09 13:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it controlling. He probably feels threatened and doesn't want to lose their girlfriend(I don't know if your dealing through this or if its just a hypothetical question). I would try talking to him and tell him that I understand why hes upset and that I love him and nothing and nobody can come between us. I think the guys behavor is kind of sweet cause it shows that he cares enough to have feeling about this issue.
2007-11-09 13:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by blondechick89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not controlling just because he doesn't like it, he's entitled to his opinion.
It's controlling if he enforces something upon you to try and make you change your behavior. If he said he didn't like you posting videos of yourself on youtube because it makes him jealous when other guys hit on you, then that's just something he said. If he slaps you in the face and tells you to stop posting videos of yourself on youtube or he'll beat you, then he's controlling.
Jealousy is normal and healthy to an extent in relationships.
2007-11-09 13:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would not put a video of myself on youtube... if it was a group video than maybe but i dont think the boyfriend should really say anything... you should be stressing other things then something that does not mean anything... Who cares if there are guys that hit on your girl.. it should make you feel good that you have a cute girlfriend... dont stress it because if you do.. it will drive you crazy... i will just let it go...
2007-11-09 13:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on what kind of videos you were putting up..if the whole purpose of you putting them up is to get attention (erotic ones, ones that are to catch a guy's eye) then he has a right to not like that. But, if they're just you and your friends messing around, being goofy, then he shouldn't have a problem or feel threatened by it, and if he is, he's just insecure about himself.
2007-11-09 13:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by dupre1ke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just depends on what kinda vids ur putting on there if there just reg vids then theres a prob but if ur being a lil sluzly like dancing and showing off ur goods then thats all u and u should chill with that befor he slaps u lol sry about the slap part but yea if u are then its not controlling its just normal
2007-11-09 13:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋