I wouldn't advise the use of vibrators etc for a newcomer to masturbation. The first thing is to get 'in the mood', think of things that make you warm and moist. Explore your genital area slowly and gently. The sensitivity of you labia can be delightful. Run a finger or two just a little inside your vulva. When your fingers are wet, feel around your clitoris, you'll probably find that two fingers moved gently up an down along each side of the clitoris is the better starting option. Use you other hand to gently pull up the clitoral hood and then put you fingers on the clitoris. Vary between full-on and at-the-side motions. As you approach orgasm, you'll probably find that you are closing your legs, this is normal. After orgasm, take it easy, relax, take your time to get up and about - you will almost certainly find that your clitoris and nearby parts feel very, very sensitive for a while.
2007-11-09 20:18:16
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answered by Sandy B 2
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go to your room, lock your door lay in your bed, open your legs a little & rub your clitoris with your finger (up & down motion), focus on something hot, such as a cute guy on top of you. gather up your natural lubrication from your vagina to rub your **** for about 10 mins till you orgasm. It feels so good!
2007-11-09 21:29:23
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answered by sugarBear 6
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get some one u feel comfortable with like a woman friend and got to the adult store and get some toys! that should help u!
2007-11-09 22:40:30
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answered by ashp_82084 1
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Be careful because you can get hurt. Make sure everything you use is clean. Talk to your mom about it and ask her questions. It is better to go to her than to ask for advice on the computer. She will understand.
2007-11-09 21:42:37
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answered by Mir 4
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If you don't know, you probably aren't ready. It'll come naturally.
2007-11-11 18:28:53
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answered by DeltaKilo3 4
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first learn to spell it it's masturbation . Second ask your dr. or a sex education teacher or a therapist . usually women don't actually need penetration to achieve orgasm .
2007-11-09 21:27:38
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answered by dogpatch USA 7
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