soo theres this x boyfriend of mine (no names) and i saw him like soo kissing another girl and it was soo his idea. soo i broke up with him but i really like him. soo it took me like 2 days 2 get over it. then i started going out with the person i am now and he did cry when i broke up with him. and now he keeps saying how much hes sorry a keeps making a fool out of him self by doing that like in front of his friends including my boyfriend now cause they are friends. what should i do. i mean i do like him, but my boyfriend now likes me alot and i like him alot to but it breaks my heart too see him like that. oohhh and sometimes he starts crying
2007-11-09 12:25:24 · 15 answers · asked by sam!!!! 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think you were right to break up with him, He should have kept his lips only for you. He blew it, and You couldn't trust him not to kiss someone else again. He learned a valuable lesson, as did you. He learned that you have to stay true to your girlfriend or you risk losing her. You learned that the act of breaking up with someone is not easy. You still have feelings for your ex for quite a while, and it hurts you to see them in pain. You have a delicate situation, You have a new boyfriend but with your ex acting so hurt you want to help a friend but you might upset your new boyfriend in doing so. If it was me I would call the ex and explain that you know he feels bad and you don't like seeing him that hurt, But please stop coming up to you and apologizing like he's doing. You can't help him and it doesn't help him to do that. You are not going to listen anymore and you will walk away if he does that again. I don't know if you in the future will want to be friends with him again, but you have to get him to stop doing that . It doesn't help either one of you and makes him look bad. It also makes you look bad when He is begging you to forgive him. If you can, after you talk to him on the phone, do walk away, that is the best you can do for both of you. Good luck I know It's hard ,
2007-11-10 04:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I got this straight: you saw your boyfriend kissing some one else, you broke up with him and now he wants you back and is making a donkey out of himself. And you are wondering if you should dump the guy who is into you? Are you kidding? Really? Why go back to the guy who made you look like a fool while you have a guy who is into you? Stay with the new guy and explain that you were not the one kissing some one else-he was. And his lost is someone else gain.
2007-11-09 20:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him he played you as a fool don't let him do it again. Men can be like this but just let go and dont worry about him. If he starts crying again tell him to quit being a baby and get over you cause your happy. So just try and be friends with him if you want to. good luck with what your going through.
2007-11-10 18:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by 2bit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm well begging seems pethatic to me, and crying isnt the way to do it either, so if he continues to do that then screw him
really you have to decide rather staying with this guy is better for you or if your ex really does regret what he did and it can be fixed...
its really more up to you then anything, like what your emotions and your heart tell you, or what feels right to you
2007-11-09 20:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shadowlord 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up,and get on with his life,because you and him are over with,because you demand total dedication to your relationships with others and especially with your boyfriend,you trusted him and he wasn't true to you and drifted away with another girl to fulfill his fantasy's.
2007-11-10 14:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a man not a boy. Crying is for girls and weak boys.
2007-11-09 22:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself if you like guy #1 or guy #2.
2007-11-09 20:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Allison♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 100% behind Rocky on this on!
2007-11-09 20:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Haaaaay! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the name under your avatar says it all.
You can't have your cake and eat it, too. Move on.
2007-11-09 20:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Resident Heretic 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
So... What's your question?
But anyway, I think you should get back up with him, 'casue everyone should get a second chance, you know. :)
2007-11-09 20:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lorelei 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋