My friend is mad at me and has been ignoring me for the last 3 days. She told me 2 days before that she was mad at me because I don't listen to her or take her seriously, which, I think I do. Im sorry for whatever it was that I did and I want her to start talking to me again. I hate having her mad at me and its made me like…Idk…not me. Ive been crazy sad, and people have been noticing; it seems like shes the only one that hasnt. And I want her to notice so she gets that I am sorry and I want to go back to the way things were. Help?
I know shes gonna read this so here:
Dead - Like a candle you burned out;
spill the wax over the spaces left in place of angry words.
Scream - To be heard, like you needed any more attention;
throw the bottle, break the door, and disappear.
Sing me to sleep, I'll see you in my dreams,
waiting to say, "I miss you. I'm so sorry."
Forever's never seemed so long as when you're not around
it's like a piece of me is missing.
-Lullabies
2007-11-09 11:10:36 · 20 answers · asked by Jealousheartswillleaveusinruins♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, no, I'm definitley not a lesbian, I miss my f***ing friend okay?
2007-11-09 11:15:54 · update #1
Okay, yeah, i guess I left a part out... I was trying to get it all to fit. i apologized before, and then she apologized too, and then we had a conversation. I come to school on Wednesday, and she is completely ignoring me.
2007-11-09 11:21:42 · update #2
thats stuipd that shes mad at u she got to teach u how to make u understand her... just tell her how u feel and ask each other how u guys can work it out for the furture good luck
2007-11-09 11:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters just ask her what exactly you did wrong so you know whether in fact you did something wrong or not. Maybe she saw it differently to you and it actually wasn't as bad as it seems. But find out for sure as it isn't healthy for either of you or for your friendship. Plus if the friendship is a good one she should have said something by now. We all get to a point where we mightn't listen like we should or take each other as seriously as we should but you two should really talk openly about it to resolve this situation.
2007-11-09 19:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kym M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - apologizing could make things better or worse. OK, so think why she mad at you for 3 days so far. Are you seriously not being serious with her? If she keeps being a scrawny ***** than just do the ignoring moves that she does to you. Do the High Chin, and Shoulder, and ignore her, and she'll get tired and fess up. It always works for me.
2007-11-09 19:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly that. that you don't know what you did and you're really sorry for whatever you did (or did not do). give her time. she'll probaly forgive you later on. if she really is a "friend" then she will forgive you. if she doesn't after a while and you're tired of apologizing, then maybe it's best to move on. don't stress yourself out. also, if what she says about you is kinda true (idk if it is) then it wouldn't hurt if you try to do the opposite of what made her mad in the first place. i'm not saying change yourself or your personality, but it wouldn't hurt if you tried listening to people more often and being more considerate. i hope you guys get this settled. good luck :)
2007-11-09 19:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by perfectltangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you tell her that you really want to listen and understand what you did wrong so that you can fix it? Tell her how important her friendship is to you...and how much her being angry is affecting you. Let her know that you arent seeing what it is that you are doing wrong, and that whatever it was its not intentional. Let her know that if she takes the time to explain it to you that you will make every effort to fix it so she doesnt have to feel angry or hurt anymore.
2007-11-09 19:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you really don't listen to her as you should. Try to listen to her more. Don't brush stuff that she says away. Add comments to stuff she says.
But maybe you really do listen to her but might give the illusion of not listening.
Figure out which of those choices fit you. Then, apologize. Simply apologize.
2007-11-09 19:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you did to make her mad. You dont listen to her or take what she says seriously. You know how I know? Because she TOLD YOU THAT, and you even repeated it to us, but you didnt pay any attention to it, and went right ahead and told us you didnt know why she was mad.
I think you just proved her point. Call her and apologize for being a nitwit, and thank her for caring enough about your friendship to point this out.
2007-11-09 19:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell your friend (even if you don't know what you did) say I am so sorry for what I did and I want things back the way they were
2007-11-09 19:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to my friends and the person who was ignoring the other was waiting for the other one to talk to her because she didn't think that she valued their friendship anymore, so say ur sorry for anything that u did and u still wanna b friends
2007-11-09 19:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sorry, and also say i will listen to you and take you more seriously i just want to be good between us.
2007-11-09 19:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by MiMi<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋