... would you still entertain, much more nurture the feeling?
Note: "wrong" person in the sense that either is or both of you are committed or it is just not meant to be...
2007-11-09 10:51:40 · 16 answers · asked by kahlan nynaeve® 7 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
"Wrong" depends on your sense of right and wrong. Some people have no morals or integrity. Some would fall to the sidelines for someone they loved if they knew it was best. This is a very difficult question because it is not entirely just black or white. "Wrong" can be hard to resist when you know that this person is the one. But "wrong" may also lead to other dangers and troubles.
In the end. It is entirely up to you whether you choose to continue forward or fall onto a different path.
2007-11-09 11:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by xbabyxfr3akx 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is a difficult decision to make, specially if your feelings towards this person is so profound. Sometimes all rational thoughts or reasonings have no impact on your being because you only think of what life will be without him. And that hurts. You need more than time and logic for your heart to understand that it is morally wrong to continue nurturing those feelings knowing that it is not possible.
No, I don't think I can live with myself knowing I am the cause of a marital break-up just because I let my feelings for the man overrule my sanity. It will hurt but what is more hurtful than to be condemned for life for something so immoral? Or, if our love was not meant to be, then, there must be a good reason why this is so.
2007-11-09 11:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love .... conquers all. Even it is wrong, it seems always right. No one could tame or teach the heart. Remember, you could do nothing when Cupid struck you with his arrow.
But, think first. It is very hard to adopt for that situation. Gossips or rumors always follows.
God is Love. He understand the feeling. Just like King David and Bathsheba's story.
God forgave David, not only because David repented (2 Samuel 12:13), but moreover for the sake of the assigned role that The Chosen People were given in God's plan of salvation for all humans, all sinners.
2007-11-10 21:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jex 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nurturing the feeling leads to doing something about it. Unless the situation clears, you are headed for major trouble.
2007-11-15 12:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid I nurtured our relationship. I should have broken it off much sooner, but I was in love. After awhile it became totally obvious to me that she was wrong for me and I had to break it off. The really sad part is that she still thought I was right for her and was still planning to marry me. I feel really bad about breaking her heart, but it was better than getting married and later having to separate.
2007-11-09 11:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me once. I fell for a guy who's already engaged. At first, I let my feelings took over. After 6 months, I stopped entertaining him. It's kinda hard. But in a situation like this, I knew I had to follow my mind and pride.
2007-11-09 14:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.
wrong is wrong. I fall in the same situation before, and I regret it. It created a lot of pain and trouble to everyone involved.
It's not the way to be.
2007-11-09 11:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by otter2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Like one other part of the my body......my heart often does not listen to my brain......I have been a fool for love many times.
On three occasions where it was obvious that while I would enjoy myself but the relationship would hurt or even destroy the other person.....I walked away. If you care about someone you do not use them. ergo do not turn on the stove unless you plan on cooking
2007-11-09 14:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kojak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! But then again, easier said than done. I haven't been in such a situation but I know someone agonizing over this right now. Oh well, she seems to have all the answers "I'm covered, okay" - her favorite line - so I guess she's knows what she is doing.
2007-11-09 16:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by tin2 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, but no I won't nurture it..better to suppress it right the first time while your brain can still handle your heart..
2007-11-09 14:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Cher 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋