he is mad
2007-11-09 09:39:47 · 44 answers · asked by boy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Who cares? It'll all be out in the open in less than nine months.
Think about it.
2007-11-09 09:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by ►solo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well how mad could that boy be, he didn't use protection. Though it isn't just a one way street it works both ways. It seems like they were not being responsible and looking for the pleasure of it.
Getting that girl pregnant should be the least of his worries, what about an STD or HIV? He really needs to respect himself by protecting himself.
IT seems to me that your friend is selfish and too immature to be having sex if he is mad at the girl. He could have used a condom, don't rely on anyone to keep you safe. You are your own advocate.
Children are a gift from God.
It seems that your friend is immature and shouldn't be having sex. Because sex even though it feels good, there are consequences and only adults who can handle them and take responsibility for them and step up to the plate should have the pleasure to indulge.
Tell your boy to step up and act like a man. Whats he going to do for his child, and to make sure that this doesn't happen again?
2007-11-09 09:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by ################################ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he's mad, this was NOT what he was expecting, right?
Not a bad idea to NOT tell anyone at first. This has to be a private matter between the two people who made the baby, and they have to have clear heads when deciding what to do. Outside influences, as helpful as they want to be, come with baggage like judgement and guilt, and until they as a couple decide what they're going to do, why open doors to that...unless of course they're both freaking out, going " what am I going to do?!?!" then maybe an understanding parent, sibling, preist, coach, whomever could be of some use. Good luck!
2007-11-09 09:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be there for your friend. Tell him no matter what he should stand up and do the right thing...see the girl through this situation. Make sure the girl gets a pregnancy test and she should take it in front of the guy...make sure she's not lieing first....if she is pregnant and marriage is out of the question I suggest counsiling. Having a baby at a young age is not the best thing for everyone. It will change your life forever.
2007-11-09 09:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by weatherednboston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like jr high kids?
Well- first of all your friend shouldn't be having sex if he isn't prepared to raise a child. There is no 100% proof of protection. Except for abstaining. Means NO SEX
It isn't your job to tell anyone. So, don't tell anyone. This is an issue between himself and the girlfriend. If they are old enough to produce a baby- they should be old enough to reach out and ask parents or school for help.
If they choose abortion, I do hope that they truelly understand what that means. Angin, not your problem.
I would say the only reason you would have the right to say something is if your friend or his girlfriend put themselves in danger.....for example is they plan on a dangerous abortion - Like trying to do it themselves and she starts to bleed to death.........yes you then definatly get adult help.
Or if they run away- it is ok for you to talk to an adult or the parents or the cops.
If your friend keeps talking to you about it and not telling anyone tell him that you will stand by him as his friend, but he needs to get some grown up help. The longer they wait the harder it will be.
Again........this issue is between your friend & his girlfriend.
You can't change it, you didn't cause it and you can't fix it.
2007-11-09 09:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as his friend i think that you shouldnt tell anyone! But tell him that now he has to man-up and do whats right! I mean now that she is pregnant he has a few months to deal with the changes! If you want you can just make sure that he does the right thing
2007-11-09 09:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by lovingme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, Get info. and support at a pregnancy resource center, which you can find by googling optionline, or call 1800bethany. Encourage him to take the best care of his precious little baby. Sincerely, Runner
2007-11-09 09:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he mad? Didn't he know where babies come from? He doesn't have to love his child but hiding it not telling his family and friends is wrong. He will be supporting his child unless he is low life maybe that is what he doesn't want people to find out.
2007-11-09 09:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it takes 2 to get a girl pregnant why the heck is he mad, he is also to blame for!!
2007-11-09 09:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by doggylover1125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a question, really, but I'll assume you want to know if you should tell somebody?
If they are minors, you might want to tell a counsellor or social worker. If all three of you are adults (physical not mental age), do whatever you want.
2007-11-09 09:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by HXT1138 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really tell if you're asking for advice or not, but its up to the two of them to make the right decision, if I were you I would stay out of it , honor his request and not tell anyone, and let the two of them handle it.
2007-11-09 09:44:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋