family trouble by the double, a new version of family fued.?

Question

i have 2 cousins that are great sometimes but others they are pains in the butt. one is 11, the other is 8. well the younger one like bosses me around, she jumps on me, kicks me, pinches me, and hits me, till she gets what she wants. sometimes she'll just do it for no reason. she tells me not to talk to the other cousin, and not to, talk to my sister who is 12. the other one claims i'm immature, and teaches the younger one to do those things. i don't do that and need to find a way to stand up to my
youngest cousin, and prove to the other one that i'm not immature. please tell me how.

Answer 1

Where are the adults in this house? Get off your behind and go to the adults. Take them with you but don't let them know why. Excuse yourself for interrupting and say, I need a favor. Tell their mother or your mother that the youngest seems to think it is okay to kick, punch, and pinch you and the older one keeps encouraging her to do it. That you thought about doing it back so she could see how it felt, but that you knew that wouldn't be right, and that you thought the more grown up thing would be to ask they make them stop, not only today but not ever do it again. You have just put them on the spot, they have to say something to your cousins, and they can't really fuss at you because you did the right thing. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

Dear Friend,

I am sensing that there may be more going on behind the scenes with your cousin.

Anyone who acts out abusively, may be having some issues that need to be addressed. This certainly sounds like negative attention and it is happening for a reason.

I would talk to an adult(s) about this matter before someone gets hurt.

In His service,

lostnsavd...

Answer 3

You don't need to prove anything to her just knock her on her ***.

They both sound very immature and hostile.

Answer 4

How old are you? What they do to you, you need to do it back. Sometimes you have to give people a taste of there own medicine.