This is my 3rd group of friends in a year becase my other ones just never invited me ANYWHERE... Well now I want to ask my new group of friends if we can do something this weekend but because I havn't done anything in AGES I dont know how! How do I just bring it up casually?
2007-11-09 07:54:39 · 19 answers · asked by Marissa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ask the one that you think would be more likely to wnat to go,,then after they agree, call the next one and say me and " " are going would oyu like to go with us,,then keep going down the list. Have a great weekend.
2007-11-09 07:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say it when you're hanging around talking. Have something in mind that you'd like to do.. try a new restaurant, a movie you want to see, something like that, and ask "hey, how about we go and check out that new movie....? I heard it was good." They might not want to, but at least you'll have given the idea.
2007-11-09 15:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe instead of finding new friends because the others don't do anything, you should take the lead in orginizing something to do.
I you do all the work of thinking where to go and orginizing it, and you commit to going wheather they decide to or not, then others will follow you.
2007-11-09 15:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Grant G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. are you reasonably close to these new group of friends? i mean do you have their number/talk too them regularly? if so just drop it in casual conversation.. like 'oh yeah id like to see that movie ' 'or go there' and see what they say if they agree just say yeah lets all go.. make a day of it or something.. if not ditch them and keep trying..:)
2007-11-09 15:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
Why not just ASK one of your friends in this group... one at a time.. "Hey, whatcha gonna do this weekend?" Then, if it sounds like something you'd care to do as well...ASK if you can go too?
No one is a mind reader. (grin)
We receive not, because we ASK NOT! Does that make sense?
Sincerely in Christ Jesus,
lostnsavd...
2007-11-09 16:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by lostnsavd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While all you guys are out together just say something like "Hey what is everybody doing this weekend? Why don't we all get together and do something".
2007-11-09 15:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be casual? Just come up with some ideas and see if anybody wants to join you.
2007-11-09 15:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the group, "Who wants to do something this weekend?" or if there is a movie you want to see, "Anybody want to go see
2007-11-09 15:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask them what plans they have and say ur meeting some1 at the movies and ask if they want to come. its that simple. dont sweat over the little stuff like that.
2007-11-09 15:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by who's that girl? <333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should address the reason why people aren't inviting you anywhere instead of friend hopping.
2007-11-09 15:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Introverted extrovert 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋