"fate" again?

Question

standard,i searched for answers about fate, most of the answers i found was for ppl who beleived that they can choose their lived and that fate doesn't exist, well, i tried to beleive that but i am a female who was born in a society that beleive that females are less by , that being a male gives u the right to do everything, yet i managed to get a scholarship, and got my MD in medicine. now im not allowed to persue my dream in studying pathology, im not allowed to choose my husbund, im beaten by my brother and father if i said what i want, or even if they feel like it someday and after that im nt allowed to cry so that neigbours wont kn ow about it i can't leave on my own or ill be killed, i bout the '"secret", the book about the law of attraction, but i don't beleive that it'll work, so should i beleive in fate, or that i can choose my destiny, coz god know i want, or i chose none of what i have now? tell me plz what to do

i dont live in the us, if that would help u understand

Answer 1

Please edit your question and tell what country you live in.
I am sad for you. I would beat your brother senseless if I could find him, and your dad should be stoned to death or maybe just near death over and over again for hurting his own child.
I feel sick just trying to digest what you have written.
I must have been under some American rock or something to not know this still happens in our world. May God bless you.

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear this, we take for granted being able to live freely out here. whether you believe in fate or not is a personal choice but just remember your destiny is what you make out of it, you always have the freedom of choice, if your in a bad situation is there any way you could leave the country? since you already have education it would not be hard for you to immigrate and continue your studies elsewhere, never let power be taken out of your hands be strong and be a fighter, if you believe in something enough you can manifest it but don't expect it to magically appear it's through your own actions that you can make it happen, good luck I hope your situation get's better

Answer 3

There is a reason for everything that happens. These are the very things that we need to grow and progress. First however, we must understand who we really are and what is our true nature. We are not flesh and bone or human. We are spirits created in the image and likeness of God.

All your questions can be answered. Learn what spirit is and what life is all about.

http://innerquest1.blogspot.com/2006/10/spirit-self-and-hidden-meaning-behind.html

http://secrets-of-the-kingdom.blogspot.com/2006/11/reincarnation-and-karma.html

Answer 4

Dear Shireen:
It made me sad to hear your plight. You have accomplished much in your life and should feel proud that now you can be whatever you want. Be positive of that and decide what is best for you not what you call family. No one should have to go through what you have from your relatives. Get to a big city and apply for a job in your field. Be Happy and let all of us here know of your accomplishments.
Spartawo...

Answer 5

the book the secret isnt a big deal. its the basic of all religions and phylosophy. positive thinking will yield posiitve results because you will notice things that you want more atuned. the best thing i can gtell you is keep that open attitude. why would you be killed for leaving. just go somewhere else or accept that this is whta they want for you. you can either live life your way or die trying to live your own way.

Answer 6

Before the start of all your questions, about yourself and who you seam, take my view and listen don’t start, your every thing you need to be…
You seam strong. You should be strong.
You seam strong. You should be strong.
You seam strong. You should be strong.

Answer 7

the book secret only work if you have faith that's is believe with all your senses. Specialy in youself.