am i a lesbian?

Question

i went overseas to japan and i fell in love with my girl cousin, and now want to marry her... shes 8 years older than me, im 18, shes 25
and shes kinda like a tomboy,her hair is really short, and she refuses to act like a girl, shes a tomnboy she acts like one and she has pictures of me alllll over her cellphone, we used to make out at night too, and she would always look at me like she wants to **** me. does she really love me?
i think that is incest, anyways.
so is my cousin a lesbian like me?

Answer 1

Yes, you are probably a lesbian. But, please give up on your cousin. Cousin's should be friends, not lovers. You will find someone else.

Answer 2

That depends, do you like guys too? you might be bi. You need to TALK to her, find out what she wants, don't just guess and guess and guess until you make yourself crazy.
From what you say, it does sound like she wants you too, but it isn't incest. Cousins of opposite genders getitng married and having children could be arguably incestuous, but cousins of the same gender falling in love, I would say it is not.
BTW what does going to Japan have to do with it?

Answer 3

Incest taboos were initiated to prevent birth defects...unless you can get pregnant from spit, there really isn't a problem, is there...if you guys truly love each other.

Answer 4

Yes, you and her are lesbians, and that is consider incest but if you want to be with her then go ahead!

Answer 5

hunny find someone not related to you yes its insest its not right. she might be bi ask her

Answer 6

you are incestuous my dear...and a lesbian.

Answer 7

sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick