ok there are 4 girls in my ballet class **names are changed**
this one girl (*amy*) - really nice....chatty and a really good dancer
ME! - im the 2nd best dancer in my class and im nice and good friends with amy
*Arielle* she is the wost dancer in my class but me and amy are friends with her
*Carly* she is the 3rd best dancer in my class... she thinks she is a know it all and she thinks she has the combos down but when ever its her turn she messes up. she acts like she is better than me arielle and amy which really buggs me.
when we were on the bar we were about to do grand batmas (sp) and she was like ohh i have to stretch i think im going to pull a muscle ( in a really whiny voice )....and we areadly streched on the floor and on the bars with pleyas and grand pleyas
when ever we go across the floor we always have a certain order....
amy
me
carly
and arielle
and after amy goes its always my turn and carly always tries to go ahead of me which i think its completly unfair!.....tbc
2007-11-09 05:43:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
she wants to go ahead of me to show off
but then she goes and she messes up the combo and she takes forever to finish the combo since she keeps on messing up
she really buggs me
me, arielle and amy dont really like her
but whats her problem?!?!
** the ballet moves spelling is all messed up. sorry i dont know how to spell them! **
2007-11-09 05:43:21 · update #1
amy is better than me
she is the best in our class
and carly doesnt bother amy!
2007-11-09 05:51:38 · update #2
the words are in french so i couldnt really fix them
2007-11-09 05:56:19 · update #3
arielles not the problem
she is my friend but she stinks at ballet but me and amy are supportive of her
but no one in my class likes carly
2007-11-09 05:57:15 · update #4
As life takes you down it's wonderful road of experiences, you will find and learn life is not fair or right...
Never was, never will be...
It is a fact of life that there will always be those folks that seem, or think, they are better than you, and you will always think there are those that are worse than you...
You just work on you...
Make yourself number one and don't give into others opinions of you...
Just tolerate that gal till class is over...
Wait till you get tougher problems in life...
Then this one will look so simple...
2007-11-09 06:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by aspenkdp2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there -- sounds to me like Carly is a bit insecure and maybe a wee bit jealous too. I think she wants you all to like her and is just trying too hard, but isn't capable of producing. She is probably suffering from low esteem and may have a very unhappy home life. There are always people in life who want so much to be accepted, however, they often go about it the wrong way. May you and Amy and Arielle should sit down with her and explain that you want to be her friend, and start all over again. I am sure it will make you ballet classes more fun. Also when you have words you are not familiar with, there is a little box that says check spelling, and you can hit that and it will help you with words that you are not sure of. Good Luck
2007-11-09 13:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Diane B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just naturally a pain in the a**.
Sounds like though that she wants to be as good as the rest of you and is looking for acceptance. I bet if you start to compliment her and make her feel better about her shortcomings that she'll start to back off with the annoying behavior. She probably wants to be friends with everyone too. Now you wouldn't want people to think you are stuck up for excluding her, would you?
Whoever goes first shouldn't be relevant because it doesn't really matter in a practice situation. I can tell you though that if you go last or second to last that you'll look better. You always want the worst of the worst going first, that way everyone else will look better!!
For example, I've never known anyone to enter a talent show or other venue where they're judged for their talent going first to win the prize. My husband was in a band that entered a talent show and I told him not to go first. First for some reason automatically rules you out for winning the award. Don't know why, but it has always worked that way.
2007-11-09 13:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chick-A- Deedle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.... I seems to me like this girl may be jealous of you. If you tries to go in front of you, and she always tries to get attention; I'd say that she is jealous!
Try to be nice to her, and be humble about being really good in ballet. Maybe even help her, and she will be nicer.
(By the way, I do ballet too!)
2007-11-09 13:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol. Wah! wah! whah! wah! wah! . You're a kid; start acting like one.
Just kidding, it's obvious that she is envious. Just ignore her; it's not even worth a response. Envy is a ridiculous think, so don't placate it
2007-11-09 13:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Luvon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just jealous tell her she might need to work a little harder and shes not the best and not the worst
2007-11-09 13:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you and tries to get your attentionby pissin u off (it makes you think about her, even in a bad way) i guess?
2007-11-09 15:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew, she sounds annoying.
i think she's probably jealous.
btw, i love doing batmas. :]
2007-11-09 16:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋