I mean, I've always had the short end of the stick, pulled out the short straw.
My skin gets really pale and people call me albino...so I have to risk skin cancer and wrinkles to go tanning. He didn't make me tall like those that are desired...at a height of 5'9", didn't make me strong, instead I'm skinny and have to work out to get stronger and bigger.
My hairline is depleting, and I'm totally insecure about it. This all makes me so insecure that I've been told I look tense and unapproachable, I don't get invited to parties, or the clubs. I have a girlfriend, but I couldn't tell you why she loves me, she could do SO much better than me. I go to my college classes and see the popular guy hitting on the girls, getting invited to parties, and living it up, while I stand on the sidelines, afraid that someone like him will steal my girlfriend away from me. I'm failing one of my classes and my mom is disappointed in me..my parents are divorced BTW. Why me, God, why me? Any advice?
2007-11-09 04:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
For instance, I was walking out of the gym today and passed a group of 4 guys and one pointed to me, and said "*****" and the other guy said, "Basically"
I mean, I didn't do anything to provoke this kind of treatment, I'm a good person.
2007-11-09 04:35:44 · update #1
There are always going to be ignorant people out there. People that feed off of the sorrow of others.
Just hold your head up high, be happy that you've got someone that loves you. Any insecurities you have with your appearance should be outweighed by the fact that you have someone that loves you regardless.
I know it's easier said than done, but please try.
I'm just a ball of insecurities and unhappiness and it's led me down a road that i fear I'll never be able to conquer, and i don't want anyone to ever feel like I do.
I hope you find happiness.
x
note; i don't personally believe in a god, so i can't answer your main question, sorry.
2007-11-09 04:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Cinny [1334♀] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't hate you :) I'm not trying to accuse you of anything, so please don't take this the wrong way, but I've found that when I'm feeling down taking a look at the positive things in life makes me feel a lot better. Maybe instead of being so insecure try being a little more confident, girls notice that. Maybe you could think of it this way- at least you're not some stuck-up guy who cheats on his girlfriend and thinks he's all that, right? If you're a good person, that's better then being tall, dark, and handsome. Beauty fades but personality stays with you forever.
2007-11-09 04:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~Think About It~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can God hate Jesus? Jesus is God! God printed Himself to guy 2,000 years in the past. As a million Timothy 3:sixteen places it, And with out controversy great is the secret of godliness: God became take place interior the flesh, justified interior the Spirit, considered of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on interior the worldwide, won up into glory. in spite of each and every of the info that became shown, in spite of each and every of the coolest works, each and every of the miracles that have been finished, the Jewish nevertheless refused to have faith Jesus Christ as whom He claimed to be, even so as that they could dare forged stones at Him on distinctive events (John 8:fifty seven-fifty 9; John 10:29-33). Who did Jesus Christ declare to be? some think of He became no longer something extra advantageous than some regular Joe. Muslims have faith he isn't something extra advantageous than a trifling prophet. The Jehovah's Witnesses declare Jesus is Michael the Archangel! what variety of regular Joe, what variety of prophet, what variety of guy can heal the palsy (Mark 2:a million-5), and the blind (John 9:a million-11)? what variety of guy do even the devils worry (Matthew 8:28-32)? what variety of guy, with the shout of a voice, can advance the ineffective returned to life (John 11:40 3-40 six)? Who different than the writer (Colossians a million:13-17; John a million:a million-4, 14), the Alpha and the Omega (Revelation a million:8), the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6)! Who different than Jesus Christ, a twin of the living God (2 Corinthians 4:4)! As a million John 5:7 places it, "For there are 3 that bear checklist in heaven, the father, the be conscious, and the Holy Ghost: and those 3 are one." "He became interior the worldwide, and the worldwide became made by using him, and the worldwide knew him no longer." -- John a million:10
2016-11-10 22:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ill tell u sumthing rite now. i used to have all the same problems as u. ok niceness is over. ur a whiner, ur probs r normal and not serious untill u let them b. do wat i do. wen u get pushed around, push back. the first time u get crap from a kid u got even a small chance with, nail him. u will c improvements in ur life if u make it a public fite and kick the crap out of them. :)
2007-11-09 04:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No- God ♥s you- But it seems you have a self-esteem issue... talk to a psychologist... you'll feel better
2007-11-09 04:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by If the mask fits... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no that is not possible
God loves everyone
and it is not him, it is the ppl around you.
Some ppl have no heart. Just live your life
to the fullest
2007-11-09 04:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God [tht dude up there] can only hate you if you have done something real bad you no like killed someone [i hope you hven't by the by]..= ]
2007-11-09 04:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋