I have a grand daughter who is going to be married shortly. She wants my blessings and advices reagrding her mariage. I do not know many things in present days life of a young 21 years girl's . How and what can I bless and give her proper advice. I am totally out of knowldge and sight. Can anybody help me, please.
2007-11-09 02:44:35 · 12 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are much senior to me & any advice or suggestion from me will be like showing candle light to sun. The only thing which as a lawyer I can suggest is that make it a point that this marriage of your grand daughter is got properly registered with the marriage registrar & she gets a valid marriage certificate from the marriage registrar that will be helping her through out her life for any legal procedures where ever & when ever required. Apart from this your love, affection & blessings to the newly wed shall always be the protective shield from any harm to them through out their life. My best wishes to you & all your family members on this auspicious occasion.
2007-11-09 03:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Mm if it was me, I'd feel special if my grandma gave me advice or shared a few special moments/stories that were special between her marriage. I mean love hasn't changed that much between now and then.. just the dates/times. But think she is asking more about true love which I don't think really changes.. you know like what moments should she cherrish before they are gone, what to look for. How about saying hey times might be rough but thats when you really grow as a couple, how much can you work through and how much does that pull you close. I mean you've been around a long time to know, I bet you could give lots of examples to help with what your saying. I mean the blessing from your grandma, would mean a lot to me.. its means she is saying, hey I'm rooting for you guys and here are somethings to look forword to and that even if at times its rough, you can get through it cause I know.. I've been there.
Goodluck in what to say, I'm sure it'll be good. ^_^
2007-11-09 02:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not much younger than you are but I remember some of the advice that was given to me when I first married.
1. Marriage isn't 50/50, it's 100/100%. We have to give ALL we have to give
2. Treat your spouse with mutual respect, always, even when you're in the middle of a disagreement
3. Don't let little issues big issues. Deal with them as they come and remember to say "I love you" every, single, day.
Good luck and congratulations. Your grand daughter must have a lot of love and respect for you.
2007-11-09 02:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A blessing could come in many forms. Such as monetary or gifts if you know what I mean. If you really want to bless you granddaughter, why don't you ask her how you can do that for her. I am sure she has something in her mind.
2007-11-09 03:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things never change, good advice is timeless. Remind her to keep love in her heart and always keep the lines of communication open with her future husband.
2007-11-09 05:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matters regarding relations. Its your feelings that counts. Blessings does not vary with generations. Feel free. Go ahead.........Best wishes
2007-11-13 00:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish her happiness all the rest she should know at 21
2007-11-09 07:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by tullyln10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless her as your daughter?What is wrong?You too young as you r asking this question to young peoples.
2007-11-09 04:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously love your grand-daughter; THAT says a LOT right there! I don't know there IS much more...'Love' is still 'love'....and 'family' is still 'family'.... She seems to have both, I'd say she IS already "blessed"!!!
2007-11-09 02:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can pray to god to bless her. Your prayer will be a tool for her future prospect.
2007-11-09 02:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by champabhilai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋