I dont have orgasms during sex..Only oral. is this weird? Can I fix this somehow?

Answer 1

It's not uncommon for women to reach orgasm only during clitoral stimulation but not weird.
It's time to do some self-exploring & see what you like, this way you can teach your partner. :)

Answer 2

No. A lot of women are like this. But what I have found it depends really on stimulation of the clitoris, as well as the g-spot. With some men and some positions, there simply is not enough stimulation to bring a woman to orgasm.

So to "fix" this (though nothing is broken), you can do the following:

1. Manual stimulation during sex. Either you or your partner. Whatever position feels best to you, and your partner can thrust all he wants. If you want your partner to do this, doggie style is often easiest. But if you do it, you can be sure what you do is what you like.

2. Try a lot of different positions. Find one that suits you the best. Many women orgasm easiest if they are on top. Your partner can be lying down face-up, or sitting/slouching on a chair/couch. You can be facing him or facing away from him.

3. You also have to be comfortable with what you are doing. Inhibitions and worries during sex will detract from your ability to orgasm. Don't worry about what you look like, what he thinks, etc. Just focus on your body and what feels good.

Most guys love to make their partners orgasm, it's an ego booster. So your guy should be more than willing to accommodate your needs. If he isn't, then that's a sign of selfishness, so you may want to move on.

Good luck!

Answer 3

No, that is actually pretty common. Some woman can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation including myself. You may wanna try having your boyfriend rub your clit while you are having sex. Like when you are doing doggie style. Also, the only way I can have an orgasm during sex is to be on top. Or try using a small vibrator on your clit while you are having sex. Good luck!