If there was anything you could change about your life in the past 10 years what would it be.
what would u have done different. what advise do you wish you had have received then instead of now???
just curious...... :)
personally, i wish i had believed that life passes you by too quickly as you get older, and that if i could change anything, i would have opened my eyes and ears more at school... and i would never have been near my ex who treated me bad.
2007-11-09 02:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
First off, I know that most people won't read this because of the length, thats okay, it wasted some time and shaved off a few minutes of my work day.
This was about 3 years ago. I had 2 very good friends, a boyfriend and a girlfriend. One I considered my best friend, hung out with her all the time. The other, I knew him longer, he was also a 'best friend'. Anywho, she went to a few parties, and rubbed up on guys and I caught her kissing this guy on the neck, and I could swera the lips...anywho, I knew she was hanging out with this guy alone a decent amount. A few other things came up too. Anyways, everytime I confronted her about it and told her that I didn't want to be put in the middle of her and her boyfriend; she had me answering her phone and lying to her boyfriend (my friend) about where we were and what we were doing, anywho, everytime I confronted her she blew it off, changed the subject, and didn't listen to me. I was tired of lying to my guy friend for her and her not listening to me. So I told him. He came into my work one day to visit me because he was in town from school, and I told him everything, that his girlfriend, my once best friend, cheated on him. He confronted her, using my name, which I said was okay, and they temporarily broke up and then just got back together. Needless to say, I don't talk to either of them anymore. If I could change someting, I wouldn't have said anything to her boyfriend. I would have stopped hanging out with her the times she was going out to meet other guys, I would have kept my mouth shut and let her hang herself. But I am without 2 good friends now. Although, I've been told by many that I did the right thing and that she was never a good friend to begin with. Anywho, moral of the story, most, not all, most people will hang themselves if they are doing something like that.
Their relationship has been off and on ever since. I'm guessing trust issues, imagine that.
2007-11-09 02:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had always been a very niave person even as a kid. Being bullied often and not having much friends. Sometimes I'm too good to others, to the point that they start seeing me as a person that they could turn to when they needed my help, which I though was a good thing. But what wasn't good was that when these people don't need my help, they completely vanish off.
i'm not sure what I could do to change the person I was, probably I wouldn't anyway. But I did hope I could see through the intentions of these few peoples who never really was interested in being my friends.
2007-11-09 10:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if i could i would probly change my attitude or what ever made me not want to live anymore! cuz im always feeling like that!
oh and another thing i WOULD LOVE to change is the PRESIDENT!!! lol
2007-11-09 10:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually, i wish that i became a good girl..
2007-11-09 10:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to love more.. ^ ^
2007-11-09 10:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by blind existence 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋