Being uncircumsized...??? Anything you can tell me??

Question

New man is uncircumsized...kind of nervous about it? I have heard that when men aren't circumsized they have a higher chance of STD...how to do oral? I don't know what to do with it. Please no stupid answers...thanks.

Answer 1

Treat it the same. It's okay to be a little nervous something new appears. For oral you can pull the foreskin back. As long as he takes a few seconds to wash under it when he showers, the STD rate should be the same. I haven't had a problem with cleaning. If being uncircumcised so greatly increased STD rates, Canada, Europe, Japan, and Latin America would all be having STD crises. Plus if you guys stay loyal, that shouldn't really be much of a worry. When erect the foreskin will probably pull back and look very much cut, so they look the same.

Here's some interesting info on circumcision that should ease your mind a bit. It's more normal than you think.

The USA is the last developed nation doing circumcision on a significant scale without medical or religious reasons. That means Europe and Japan (and Latin America and China, for that matter) don't circumcise. Circumcision rates in Australia and Canada are low, and in Africa... it varies by nation/tribe. Here's a worldwide map that gives you a general idea of where circumcision is common:
http://www.circumstitions.com/Maps.html

In the United States, circumcision rates vary by state, race... and other factors, like the year you were born. For the most part, the West Coast has the lowest circumcision rates, with some states as low as 14% now. Compare that to national circumcision rates being around 90% back in the 1960s and 70s. US data:
http://www.cirp.org/library/statistics/USA/staterates2004/

On the other hand, consider the advantages that he has.

The lubricated foreskin (on the inside... like your eyelids) slides up and down during sex and masturbation to stimulate the head.
http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/

Studies have found that circumcision reduces sensitivity (this article also mentions how it has lost popularity in the USA in recent times):
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,285532,00.html

And despite being more sensitive, you still last in the same six minute range (average) that circumcised guys do:
http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2005.00070.x

Makes masturbation more difficult:
http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.06646.x

Which makes sense, that's how it was made popular in the USA:
http://english.pravda.ru/science/health/27-03-2006/77873-circumcision-0

Increases erectile dysfunction rates:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/sites/entrez?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=14979200&dopt=Abstract%7C

In another medical study it was found that females are more likely to hit orgasm with an uncircumcised man:
http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/60750.html

Feel free to research it more here:
http://shorl.com/hogarastahuse

Answer 2

Being with someone who is uncircumsized can be a little trivial, seeing as how it's not something that is very common. At least it doesn't seem to be. I don't believe that they have a higher chance of STD's then anyone else, but they do have to try harder to keep clean then other men. When they are not experiencing an erection, there is a flap of skin that covers the penis. This skin can trap dirt, oil, yeast and those sorts of things. If he is keeping himself clean, I wouldn't worry about him anymore then anyone else.
As for oral, it's not going to be all that different from what you are used to. It may be from the beginning. If he is not hard before you start going down on him, then you may need to take things into your own hands, literally. You would need to pull the skin back revealing the head, and let things go from there. If you are worried or nervous, I'm sure that he will help you out. He can guide you in what to do or what it is that he likes. It's just going to take some time to get things figured out, but if you are interested in the guy then this won't be a problem. Maybe you can even share your concerns with him, if you want to. Going to him is going to be the best place to get your answers. Hang in there and have a good time. You'll never know until you experience it for yourself. I hope that this helped you out a little bit. Have a good day.

Answer 3

Unless you know for a fact that he has NO std's you should always make him wear a condom for oral sex. You should never give oral to someone without a condom on unless you know they are free of STD's and infections. Uncircumsized men though do not have a higher STD or infection rate unless they don't clean well by pulling the foreskin back. There is nothing different to do with your new partner than you do with one who is circumsized.

Answer 4

I'm uncircumcised, I'm 49 years old, I keep myself clean, and wash that area often , I've had no Std, yes its different, but I'll tell you a guy who is uncircumcised is also a lot more sensitive down there, so as far as oral pleasure goes, be careful, watch the teeth, circumcised me have had the head exposed to there underwear, so the sensitivity is gone,from the rubbing. It is as far as I"m concerned it is mutilation to do that to a male, my brother had his skin removed and regrets its now, when you have this done when older, he said he has lost the sensitivity. Be careful, make sure its clean, and don't use harsh soaps, and like someone said earlier don't make a big thing (no pun intended) out of it, we uncircumcised men have gotten enough questions asked about it all of our lives. Go on WebMD and look it up? Some people say your more likely to get STD's, not true, if both of you are clean, there should be no problem, be careful of tearing his skin down there, most people just don't understand that you can do that, if you don't know how to handle one, make it fun for both of you,add some lubercation, flavored or otherwise. Just enjoy yourself.

Answer 5

dude im uncircumsized n i feel itz better more to hold n it looks/feels a lot bigger than anyone else. i think people'z parents are stupid n if itz good sex yu'll be alright. ------> ircumcisions may remove too much or too little skin.[108][101] If insufficient skin is removed, the child may still develop phimosis in later life.[101] Van Howe states that "when operating on the infantile penis, the surgeon cannot adequately judge the appropriate amount of tissue to remove because the penis will change considerably as the child ages, such that a small difference at the time of surgery may translate into a large difference in the adult circumcised penis.<----

Answer 6

I am not certain that research on higher chance of STD was conclusive. One long time study showed that Jewish women had less chance of developing cervical cancer “supposedly because their husbands were circumcised. Wikipedia quotes some HIV study but that relates to women transferring HIV to men not ht other way around. And if you are not certain he is disease free why have sex with him in the first place?

What I can tell you about uncircumcised men is that that little piece of foreskin contain 7500 more nerve endings (I think that was the number I saw on one of those BBC documentaries on eh body or on the sexes) so they might be bit more sensitive. (Read Wikipedia article on circumcision) Being more sensitive he might have a problem with premature ejaculation but also he might enjoy sex a lot more (either is possible). I know I do (enjoy sex more). As far as doing oral: I suggest you ask him what he likes just as you might any other man. I always correct my girlfriends if they do something I find unpleasant.

Answer 7

My honey is uncut. Don't be nervous. When he gets hard the foreskin pulls back a little. Just play around with it, he won't mind. As long as he keeps it clean under the foreskin, there shouldn't be any odor or bacteria growing. As far as oral goes, put your hand an inch or so above the base of his penis and just pull the skin down, you can hold it while you do your thing.. That exposes the head and you shouldn't have a problem.
But I think you should talk to him about it too. If he's been with other girls, he might know what to say, or maybe he'll show you how. Just experiment. It's suppose to be fun, right?

Answer 8

Are you serious or is this a joke?...There is really nothing to tell you other than what are you so nervous about? Being uncircumcised is normal and natural. How to do oral? Are you for real? How is there a major difference? STD's do not discriminate between cut or uncut. Everyone is at risk. Again- EVERYONE.. It doesn't matter if you are circumcised or not, the risk is still there. The research that was done stating the uncircumcised men are at risk was very inconclusive and misleading. A condom should always be used. There are plenty of circumcised men that are HIV positive. And more so, there are more women affected by HIV than men...

It is interesting to read the hysteria that exists among women in dating men that are uncircumcised. Most men are in fact uncircumcised and only in the United States is being uncut less common. There is nothing to be worried about.
Men in general are more at risk from getting STD's from women. Us men should be worried about the women we are with..

Answer 9

Just make certain that he is clean so make a fun shower part of your fore play and then make it a time of intimacy after sex by getting a warm soapy wash cloth and washing each other. If he or you are not monogamous then Use a condom every time and that will lesson the risk of std's no guarantees even then but much less chance.

Answer 10

don't make this a bigger deal than it is. a uncirced man is as clean as one who is. don't believe the people who say they're dirty. not true. the odds of std are no different, though i suggest you make sure he's free of them,as you would with anyone, before you become intimate. during oral, pull the skin down with your hand or mouth. if you are worried about anything, just ask him. he'll be happy to tell you what he likes. just remember, the head is much more sensitive than that of a man who is circed. that doesn't mean you should be worried about it, it only means that he'll be more receptive to whatever you do.