My partner and I been together 8 years as we are family friends from decades friends & in love.Since he had issue getting married we tried separating then get back together.He wants to get married now.So what im saying is even if i try to move on be with someone else theres noone else who wants to date me or him.It doesnt happen since we are soulmates destined fate is together.Ive only been with this man all my life.In such a situation do u think we should be married to eachother instead of living alone due to being in love with eachother soulmates destined fate being together.Please serious answers only.
2007-11-09 02:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are kind of rambling here.
If you love the man and he wants to marry you why would you want to "move on"?
If you can't imagine yourself with anyone else... then yes get married.
2007-11-09 02:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am in an identical relationship now. I understand exactly what you mean about fate, destiny, and what soulmates really are to each other. You know how many times you find the right one? Once. And once you've found that connection, you won't ever be able to find it with someone else.
My soulmate has some relationships in her past that ended very badly for her, and she's a little gunshy about putting her heart out there again, yet she also feels we are destined to be together permanently. She is nowhere near ready to get married, but we've only been together for about 6 months.
You both definitely need to be together; you're well aware of that. Marriage is nothing more than a legal formality, but it provides rights and benefits and legal protections down the line. If you're both ready to get married, then you should go for it.
2007-11-09 02:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tride dating him. If yes, what is your reaction in
your date are you happy with him. Have you discuss plans of before marriage or after marriage. If you really love this person you will not doubted. You are becoming matured person. One thing I gonna tell you communicate a lot to your partner. Sometimes love fall out when they dont communicate a lot. If this guy pressure you tell him. You will find out what really this guy wants. Merriage is long term commitment you should talk and think a lot. So many to consider. Sometimes even religion. If you are both prepared why not.
2007-11-09 03:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by salvador p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you truly in love with him?
Is he truly in love with you?
If you both truly love each other then thier should be no doubt in your or his mind that you are meant to be together.
You 2 have been happily together for 8years now right?
You 2 have been living together i take it?
Go for it, you deserve to be happy, I know what it feels like to lose one person in your life that you truly care about and i don't mean to death either. Get married have a family and be happy, you and him both deserve this.
The pain that will be thier if you don't sucks and noone deserves to go threw it, Good Luck!!!
2007-11-09 02:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by starcraft961 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people believe differently about the soulmate issue. my husband believes that we are soulmates he believes this because he hurts when i hurt and we complete eachothers sentences and we think alot alike etc. i on the other hand believe it to be fate that brought us together and why is numerous acts with him that had to be acknowledge for him to become an indivdual , this make sense? to me we had to learn to be a part before we could unite as one and maybe that was what you needed t know you have to be grown up enough to have made your own mark on this world before you join together.
2007-11-09 02:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by b.johne k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that are in love with this man and he loves you. You guys don't have eyes for any others. Yes, get married and start enjoying life together as husband and wife and for goodness sake have some children after that to let it bring you more blessings into your lifes.
2007-11-09 02:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get married. Take a chance, plunge right IN. Good things happen to those who TAKE ACTION.
2007-11-09 02:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by thom t 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't freak out.
Think about it and do what you need to do.
2007-11-09 02:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋