Hi, I'm a well dress, cute, fun personality, person. I just moved in a new town I'm going to college next semester. I didn't made any frineds ever since I moved here.(summer) now it's nov and I still didn't make any! I went to the mall and I have a job , but it's hard making friends at the mall becuase it's akward trying to come up to a group and talk about what. what do I do?? !! what can I do!!??seriously help I need new friends while i'm here. Before CHRISTMAS!!! TOO thanks 10 points
2007-11-09 02:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm only 18! and I knwo picking up a girl at the mall is easy but making friends is different! help! where to go !!??
2007-11-09 02:03:22 · update #1
I moved to Los Angeles without a friend in the world. When I tried really hard to make friends, I mostly failed. Then when I stopped trying, I got a roommate who was well connected and eventually married my husband because of her connections. But believe me, I know how tough it is/was. Try to connect with the people you work with. Even if you think that you can't be best friends with them, you can at least go to a few parties with people that they know and meet more people.
Also, try volunteering somewhere. If you have a particular thing that you're interested in, you're bound to find people that you really click with that are doing the same thing.
Finally, find out if your college is hosting any sort of social functions. You could start the ball rolling with school friends by joining those functions and meeting new people there.
Good luck. Again, I know how tough it can be, but soon you'll have tons of friends and be having a great time. Just don't put too much pressure on yourself now. It'll happen in it's own time.
2007-11-09 02:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jocelyn L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join some clubs or groups. If you join a club for people who are interested in something that you are interested in, you already have some common interests that will be the basis for a friendship - this is also true of the girls you will meet there: "also hanging out at the mall" is not one of the 59 points of compatability they talk about ;). Find a group for one of your hobbies or join one to try a new hobby and then you will get to know those people better - and eventually you will meet their other friends, etc. Keep joining things and trying out things - you will find some people you click with.
2007-11-09 02:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASk the peopel you work with to go hang out .. If you like them enough to ask.
Ask class mates to go get a coffee. It will be a long road but if you put the hand out there eventually you will find some friends. You might not make some right off and you might get a few turn downs but keep going and you will do fine.
Join clubs or groups. Book clubs, anything that is a group activity.
Above all be yourself.
2007-11-09 02:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start interacting with your coworkers! Just go up to a group of ppl and tell them that you are new to the town and is there anything interesting/fun to do around there. TALK with ppl in your classes! You have so many oppurtunities! Good Luck
2007-11-09 02:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by bodmodangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you enjoy doing? Are you more the sports type, then go where they play sports, local Y has things to sign up for. If you are more studious and read, go to the local book store and read and drink, you'll meet someone there. What ever it is you enjoy go to that and you will meet people. Look in the local paper, they have sections that show what is going on around the area.
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2016-09-28 21:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try and find some one that you think you have something in common. like a person in one of your classes and start talking. ask them a ? that will make them wonder and want to talk to you.
2007-11-09 02:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 ur skool and see if u can make friends with the guys there
2007-11-09 02:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself involved in a church group they always welcome everyone i think u will make friends their that is if u have time for that good luck
2007-11-09 02:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by dptvegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋