Ok. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He is a great guy most of the time. But sometimes, he becomes a macho pig. Thats the only words I can think of to describe him.
-When we argue, the argument is over when HE says it is.
-He always needs to place blame on someone for everything, and that person is always me.
-He does things that he knows annoys me.
-He demands apoligies from me, but refuses to give them to me when I ask because "they would be fake."
-When I tell him I don't want to argue, he does not care
-And he does things like this for example....
Last night we were having difficulities and I went to bed early. He stayed up watching TV. The TV is a little loud from our bedroom so I shut the door. (Which is what he does when he goes to bed early) He came right in and said that there was no need for the door to be shut. I was so stunned....and scared. Why is he acting like this??? Why is he controlling my life?? He is a nice guy but with issues.
2007-11-09 01:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
And you've put up with this for 2 years???
It's time to pack up and go.
And whatever you do, DON"T have a kid with this guy, or you'll have him in your life for as long as you live.
2007-11-09 01:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need these problems? Where were the examples of him being a nice guy? Bet you can't come up with as many of those. If you want to live life as a worm in your own home, go ahead, I would be running away as fast as I could.
2007-11-09 09:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his behavior can only get worse. thats how most wife beaters start out, controlling and "macho pigs". u need a man that treats u like the lady that u r, and appreciates every little thing about u, NOT someone that critizizes u.
2007-11-09 09:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by stlroyalty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he does seem to have some type of an issue, just don't know what to call it...if you feel safe or uncomfortable, now is your chance to leave the relationship..I know you care for him but then you need to get him the help that he may need or else just let him deal with his own problems, but don't be treated as if you were not human, there is no need for the disrespect unless he sees you take it, he will keep doing it.
2007-11-09 09:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋