..I mean is differently to be lonely by yourself...but it hurts when your partner makes you feel lonely..?
Any similar experiences...?
2007-11-09 00:54:01 · 22 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yup, I am going through that right now. I am always alone and even when he is with me, I am alone. I know how you feel. I am sorry you are going through this.
2007-11-09 01:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Slipped Halo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All the time! It usually means you and your partner aren't really right for each other. You must have different interests or something. At the very least, he's not there for you emotionally. If there's no chance of improvement, it might be time to think of moving on, if you can. You don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is not emotionally available for you.
I'm hanging on because I still have hope of improvement, so I'm not chucking it yet. Besides, I don't have any better options, might as well stay where I am!
Weigh your options and see what the best course of action is for you. Don't just stay because you're afraid of being alone. As long as you are in an unfulfilling relationship, you can't look for the one who will fulfill you. Might be best to get single, and get out and meet people. The right one is out there, and if you make yourself available, he'll come along when you least expect it. Almost always works that way! Good luck!
2007-11-09 01:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by baymast13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I feel lonely in my marriage. I let my husband know though. I don't keep it silent. We are very different people. He is ok with sitting at home all the time..I am not. I want to go out, see people, have drinks, etc. It's hard finding a balance but that's why marriage is hurtful and beautiful all at the same time. It's taking the time to try to work it out, and if it can't be fixed, it is time to walk away.
2007-11-09 01:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mullet Master 5000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and I have come to realize that men and women who act like this are very insecure people and have low self-esteem. They feel that if anyone of the opposite sex shows their partner attention, even if it's innocent that their relationship will be threatened. The guy I was with was very much like this, it got to the point where I wasn't able to go anywhere by myself, and he even got me to quit my job to work with him, which now I realize was just to keep an eye on me. Trust is so important in a relationship, and without it u have nothing and will never be happy. If your significant other would leave u just because a guy or girl talks to them, would that really be someone u would want to be with anyhow??? I say to those people...........gain some self-esteem, and u won't have to sweat the small stuff.
2016-04-03 03:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it hurt a whole lot too.
after three years of it, I made the break happen,it took a long time to do,but I am happy in my own skin,on my own.I date,have had boyfriends,learned the hard way,but alone is not the same as stuck and lonely from rejection.
2007-11-09 08:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by t_blond_chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRLLLLL.... Been there, done that, still doing it. Been married 11+ years and I have felt like a single mom for so many years. I feel like I have a roommate who leaves behind huge messes and games online all the time.
if you are legally bound, either marriage counseling or divorce will help cure it.
if you aren't married, you are lucky enough to have the easier option of leaving and finding someone much more worthy of your time and efforts.
God bless!
2007-11-09 01:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have.
That's when I started evaluating my relationship with the man and realized that I wasn't in love with him anymore. I broke it off soon afterwards because there's nothing good that comes out of a relationship where two people don't love each other.
2007-11-09 01:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Wanda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I thinks its actually harder to be with someone & still feel lonely. At least when your single you expect to feel lonely from time to time
2007-11-09 01:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by wordykat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I dont know what kind of advise to give you. When I told my BF I felt lonely he only made me feel silly about it. Maybe yours is nicer.
2007-11-09 01:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyday, almost every evening, if he's home on weekends,
every weekend. I don't have the room to explain it all. But yea. It hurts sooo bad
2007-11-09 08:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by Marla ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋