i want to have sexual intercourse with my gf without any condom... you get the point...
so how do i know if i'll get her pregnant or not? has this something to do with her menstrual cycle?
i don't want her to get pregnant, i just want get it out when we do it.
2007-11-08 21:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by ken 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I can give you lectures on astainence and waiting on marraige, even using a condom. But it sounds like you already made up you mind. I still think that safe sex is the best way to go. But there are lots of ways to avoid pregnancy...
1) Your girlfreind should be aware of her body, in terms of her mentrual cycle. A woman starts ovulating about 10 to 14 days after her period. Before ovulation is the best time to have sex to reduce pregnancy. But still it takes years of sexual experiences for a woman to know how to monitor this fact.
2) You can ask her to try oral contraceptives. Ask her to go to a doctor and let them discribe the best birthcontrol pills that suites her. You can get birthcontrol over the counter without going to the doctor, but seeing a doctor is best. Because birth control has side effects. And if she choses this way, if she smokes she should stop, beacause it can increase her risk of breast and cervical cancer.
3) There are also contraceptive gels she can use. This can be applied just before intercourse. They help destroy sperms that enters a woman. She has to take care of cleaning herself properly after because this too has side effects, e.g. vaginal oder.
4) She can also consider using diaphrams if you don't want to use a condom.
Whatever your dicision BE RESPONSIBLE. A responsible man protects the person they are having sex with. Just for the record there are a lot of STD's going around and the only effective form of birthcontrol that reduce the risk is condoms. Take into consideration also that NO FORM OF BIRTHCONTROL IS 100% EFFECTIVE.
I wouldn't be a responsible adult myself if I didn't let you know these things.
Stay safe.
Nads
2007-11-08 23:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and use a condom. There is no such thing as a safe day during a woman's cycle. She can get pregnant at any point, including during her period. Withdrawl is also not a reliable means of birth control. If you really cared about your girlfriend, you would play it safe and use a condom every time, the entire time.
2007-11-09 05:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by aqx99 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should use a condom to avoid gettin AIDS or STDs or spreading them...if you don't want to use a condom make sure is is taking birth control or use some other contraceptive...if you dont know how you girl friend can get pregnant that you obviously shouldn't be having sex...her menstral cycle just lets u know when she is most fertile, but the whole pulling out method is risky bc there is still sperm in ur pre-c um and she she can still get pregnant...be smart and just have SAFE sex if you end up doing it
2007-11-09 05:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find it very unfair that the one and only responsibility a guy has when it comes to getting a chick pregnant is to wear a condom. Girls have to take the pill and get fat and ill because of hormones. Or get the injection and mess with the bodys cycle completely. Or get our tubes tied or wear a female condon. NO IT IS THE MALE WHO SHOULD AT LEAST WEAR A CONDOM!!!!! Dont wear it, then DONT DO IT fool.
2007-11-09 05:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she is willing to start on the pill.. she can go to the family planning clinic and they will get it for her no problems... or there is the morning after pill.. although this cant be used as a regular contreceptive... there is the female condom.. or she can get an implant in her arm 'the rod'. if she knows her cycle and knows when she is ovulating and you avoid sex when she is ovulating, its less likley but no gaurentees
id say the simplest way is putting her on the pill...
2007-11-09 05:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she agrees to this, then you should find alternative methods of birth control - the pill, etc, and also both get tested for STDs/STIs. Condoms are the only way to avoid sexually transmitted infections.
2007-11-09 05:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence Is The Best Way Not To Get Her Pregnant.......
2007-11-09 05:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by gabriela s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her to go on the pill, then you don't have to use condoms, if you're both free of STIs, the pill is more effective than condoms.
2007-11-09 05:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by some female 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex without protection is like russian roullette....you might get lucky once or twice but not forever..if you don't want to use condoms...there are other forms of contraception like the pill for example...remember it only takes one drop...pulling out is not a good method as there is always a bit of pre-c um
2007-11-09 05:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by skippa 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
don't risk it . There are too many children born that way. Just be a man and use a condom.
2007-11-09 06:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋