I have doc appointment in 2 weeks and i just dont think i can wait longer!!?

Question

In 2 weeks I will be 6 weeks pregnant. I will have my first ultrasound. I had a miscarriage in july 1st and this is my first time pregnant after it. I am always worrried and obsessed about something bad could happen. I dont have sore boobs, and dont feel bloated today like previous days. I used to have cramps and not anymore. I think it helped bec doc told me to take progesterone pills bec he saw i was stressed.
I cannot wait that longer and see if everything is ok. I had blood tests on 14dop and hcg levels were 161 which doc thought were great. is it a good idea to have another blood test only for me and see if things are ok before seeing the doctor?????????????????? I am so scared :(

wait?? u think its better?!!!!! sh*t!
I will die in this 2 weeks

all that? hey! i am not getting an answer?!?!?!!?!

the progesterone pills are safe and will help me not to miscarry again

Answer 1

hey,stop worrying if you feel fine,having no bleeding or cramping pains then your baby is fine.
so dont get yourself all worked up as stress is no good,just take it easy until you pass 12 weeks,dont do anything too straining and look after yourself.

I miscarried last year so i was very anxiois this time,worrying every time i felt a twinge or felt a little wet but im sat here with just 3 weeks left now.

So just take it easy sit back and relax and make the most of it whilst you can because the further gone you get the more uncomftable you get so relaxing is hard.

Dont bother with a blood test because you will only panick if your levels have dropped and it can happen but it doesnt indicate miscarriage as most seem to think it doe's.

good luck im sure everything will be just fine this time round for you. xx

Answer 2

First of all its all this franticness you seem to be conveying that is going to cause a problem. You seriously need to take a chill pill and RELAX!!! Take a breath, take a warm bath, have a cup of tea!!

Doing another blood test is pointless since you already had one. It won't change anything so don't stress about it.
Waiting 2 more weeks isn't going to kill you besides, there is absolutely nothing they can do now that they haven't already done. If you had a scan at 4-5 wks you would have to have a inter-vaginal scan which is not pleasant and all you would see is a sac and not even a baby yet. 6 weeks is much better because there should be a heartbeat visible between 6-7 weeks.

I understand you are anxious because of your miscarriage but that is not going to help this baby. You need to find a way to take your mind off it for a bit like dinner with friends, go to the movies, even have a glass of wine with dinner (yes it will be fine to do that!!) And if you don't have symptoms, thats okay too! Thank your lucky stars you aren't bloated or have sore boobs because before you know it, there will be more symptoms than you care to have!!

You need to wait till 6 weeks for the scan and you need to relax as it is not good for the baby.

Good luck and congratulations

Answer 3

All this stress isn't doing you or your baby any good. If going and getting another blood test will put your mind at rest then do it but I wouldn't bother. Unless you are showing signs of miscarriage then hopefully everything is fine. Each pregnancy is different, I had sore boobs for a couple of days at the beginning of my pregnancy and then nothing until I had my little girl and my milk came through. Some days I felt bloated early on and then others I didn't feel pregnant at all and I never had any cramps. Good luck I'm sure you'll be fine : - )

Answer 4

hey first thing you have to do for the babies sake and yours is calm yourself. stress brings upon us really bad things and illnesses, so RELAX.

I can just imagine how you must be feeling, but you need to relax.
Your doctor should be able to see you straight away, seeing you have a miscarriage in your history, so im sure they can check right away if everything is ok, otherwise, go to emergency. I would. Honestly. Exaggurate it, say you feel aweful or whatever, so they can just check and put your mind at ease.

Im sure everything is fine. Please do not take any pills that those docs recommend you to calm you. Natural and healthy is the way to go.
Eat plenty of fresh veggies, fruit, healthy stuff, drink plenty of water, say a prayer
and all will be good

ill say a prayer for you too
;)

Answer 5

It happened to a friend of mine. Her husband just couldn't wait for those six weeks to be over, so she ultimately gave in at three weeks. That one time was all it took - she was once pregnant once more. Her physique couldn't control two pregnancies so closely collectively, and the 2nd baby was stillborn at six months. I might question the accuracy of a blood test you got last week seeing that your hormones are nonetheless all loopy from the pregnancy. Take an additional scan in 1-2 weeks. Not to be merciless, but except your body will get back to natural, you must be giving him BJs or hand jobs alternatively.

Answer 6

I think you should take a deep breath and relax.....breathe deeply.....and just relax. you stressing out is not helping matters at all - you need to start looking after your own well-being and that of your baby. I can understand your plight - my sister lost a baby too before it was born and she's now trying to get pregnant and understandably frustrated and worried. but if your doctor thinks it's ok to wait another 2 weeks, then i'd take the doc's advice. you need to get busy with other things and just try not to worry so much. otherwise the worry and stress will consume you and you will be one unhappy person for the next number of months.

Answer 7

Many doctors use progesterone to enhance fertility prior to conception and to maintain a healthy uterus during pregnancy. Also, it may relieve morning sickness symptoms.

Women taking progesterone that become pregnant should continue at least until the third month of pregnancy, when the placenta becomes the major producer of progesterone, at which time you can taper your progesterone supplementation if you choose. Please consult your physician before changing dosage.

Good luck.

Answer 8

It's sounds to me that you are just really anxious. If the doc says all is good and you haven't bled out or otherwise miscarried, things sound good. I miscarried in January at 6 wks and then got pregnant in March, so I know how you feel. Just take it easy and be patient.

Answer 9

Since having a miscarriage, it is normal to feel anxious and scared about something being wrong. Everything should be fine unless you see any signs of miscarriage.

Answer 10

If you are this worried call and see if you and get in to see the doctor sooner. I would.