There are a guy and a girl who work in the same, large office as me. Let's say they're called Laura and Luke. Laura is one of my best friends and we've always told each other EVERYTHING. I'mgreat friends with Luke too, he called me his best female friend. I'm far better friends with Luke than Laura and Luke are.
Now Luke is a BIG womaniser. He has sex with LOADS of girls. And i've just found out that Laura and his have NOT slept together, but that a few weeks ago she took him back to her house and they did EVERYTHING but have sex.
She always made a big deal about how anyone would want to sleep with him. I don't understand why neither of them told me! I'm very trustworthy, and they tell me everything else! It's not going on now, it was a one night thing. but I only managed to find out by pretending I knew anyway and doing some serious bluffing.
I feel betrayed and I feel like it "cheapens" my relationships with them. Am I wrong??
2007-11-08 18:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let go of it.
It isn't any of your business.
People's sex lives should not matter to you unless one of them is having sex with you.
2007-11-08 18:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are, I am sorry to say. First you have to identify your problem. Whether you are sorry because your friend had sex with him or kept this deal as a secret to you. How on this holy earth you expect that one will disclose / share ones secret relation with the other if the same is forbidden. You have described luke as a great womanizer. Had you also been approached by him for what he did with Laura.
Better I suggest you get rid of this complicated affair and never be a part of such as well because out of this you will gain nothing and there would be also a threat of harassment be case as you have said they have done EVERYTHING...
Try to get a friend who will not offer you at the first instant what Luke did. A man should respect an woman and should not treat her as an bed time only.
Thanks,be realistic and take care of self
2007-11-09 02:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask them they are your friends,but you are only a friend so maybe they don't want to discuss with you because they think it is their personal matter,i think you would too do the same thing.
2007-11-09 02:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Nazneen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it any of your business to begin with? try to stay out of it, is what I think you should do. if you dont, you could end up not friends with either of them
2007-11-09 02:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋