Am I losing my friend?

Question

Me and my friend have been friends for a year now. Throughout that year we have been hella close, talk about girls, sports, play games with. But, then he kind stopped talking to me, he would rarely talk to me. I confronted him, and he tells me I act to buddy, buddy to him =\. Kinda sad, because I think of him as my best friend and a brother. And all he cares about is his image to the public, his friend make fun of him because we talk to each other to much. Saying he's gonna be gay n all. But I don't see it that way at all. He is the only friend that is my best friend and he doesn't want that. He acts totally different with me, we both got/had girlfriends, but he still gets the feeling I'm trying to become "attached". He is a brother and still he wants to get fa away from me. He talks but when he does, he has a tone that's like "get away". Don't no what to do =\... It sucks not talking to him. Now, that me n my girlfriend broke up, {long distance don't work}.. He's always been there and

and now I don't know what to do =\

Answer 1

Dang , seems to me he wasn't a true friend at all .
He wouldn't care what anyone thought of him, if he was a true friend .
You need to find someone else to be your best friendd :[

Answer 2

Your "friend" is more concerned with his image with these other people than anything else.
It looks like you really need to move on and find some other people to hang out with.
Maybe your friend will grow up and be his own person someday.

At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.

Answer 3

It seems this guy cares too much about what other people think. He's not a very good friend and is probably a bad influence. Try to back off a little bit. Stop talking to him for a week and if he pursues the relationship you know he's just been a dork, if he doesn't try to talk to you, you know he doens't care about the relationship.

Answer 4

one of the following things will happen:

he will realize that the 'friends' who are saying those things to him, just cannot take your place. they aren't real friends if they're saying things like that. it sounds so cliche, but the more i grow up, the more i realize that... it's so true! if you find a friend like that, you should hold onto him. if he can let you go just like that, so he looks good to the public, he's not a good friend.. he's just not.

OR.. he'll stay with these new 'friends'. maybe you two will never be as close as you were. in that case, he's not worth your pain. find a new best friend who is more mature, as you seem to be pretty mature.

good luck, i know how you feel <3. just remember that everything happens for a reason.

Answer 5

in my piont of view i dont thing he was ever a good friend .
otherwise he would never just listen to someone and start ignoring u . it could even be that he was using u 4 sum purpose and then ditched u . nevertheless u can always find sum other good friend. it may be hard but life must go on.
al d best <3

Answer 6

I have the same situation. My best friend forever is the same way...
Just...he sounds a little more extreme.
You seem to have the smae exact personality as mre...wanting for attention...loving and sweet...
Ehh...your friend is a jerk. If he's the only one...find a new one...or just wait =( You deserve more sweetie, you really do.

Answer 7

Remember that people will try to break up your friendship. If a person says that your too close to him or he's too close to you, and your friend actually listened to him, he's close to not being the friend whom you used to know. Best Friends stick to each other, they support each other, and they wont ruin their friendship just because someone said that you guys are too close.

Answer 8

you sound like an honest, sincere, good friend. people like you are hard to find. he does not seem mature enough to deal with peer pressure. unless he does some growing up, it's his loss. give someone else a chance to be a friend.

Answer 9

i know what u mean.. if i see 2 guys that r best friends... i think there really good friends but sometimes they look to closr to be friends, they may look a little... gay so.. i would just say try staying friends... tell hi u cosider him as your best friend and u wish he would show it back...