I jusat had a baby 3 months ago and not that i felt really sexy before i was pregnant but now i hardly ever have time to even do my hair or make up. Is it bad if i want to go out and feel sexy when i am a mom? i mean is it inapropriate to be sexy and go out with a 3 month old at home? i already have body issues with the toll having a 9 pound 6 ounce baby takes on your body. I just want to feel desirable and possibly get a piece of what my life kinda used to be like before my beautiful daughter came into this world. am i being selfish and inapropriate?
2007-11-08 16:33:07 · 20 answers · asked by christa a 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes, they can still be sexy.
Certainly if you want to be that svelte number, GO FOR IT!
2007-11-08 16:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal, and it's ok to take a breather and have some "me-time". In fact, you AND your baby will be happier if you do!
It's great to feel good and sexy. Take a night out, have your mom or a friend babysit and go out like you did before. Having a baby takes a toll on you, but feeling this way is not inappropriate or selfish.
2007-11-08 16:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bet moms can be sexy.
It'll take some work, but you can get your girlish figure back. It may take a few months of diet and exercise, but it will make you feel better and prettier.
From the way your question is phrased, it sounds like you are a single mom. Just make sure your little one is cared for and that she comes first in your world. Then go out and have a good time.
While you are getting your figure back, look for clothes that will sort of camouflage your body issues and emphasize your best features. If you have great legs show them. If your face is pretty use makeup to accentuate that. And get your sense of humor back, too. It will make you seem even more attractive to a man who appreciates women.
2007-11-08 16:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, honey, every woman wants that! there are many ways to look sexy and desirable without looking trashy. you are not being selfish, being a mom is hard work and you DESERVE a night out thats all about you. Every once in a while I go tanning, or get my eyebrows waxed... little thing things that just mommy can do and they make you feel better about about yourself. sounds like you need a girls night out-- have one you deserve it. there is nothing worng with getting beautiful and going out for an evening just as long as its not all the time-- you children should be #1. I try to get out and do something every few months(to catch up with friends and have adult convo.)... get a new outfit and have some fun, make yourself feel special for one day.
2007-11-08 16:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah we can be, will always be. It might take you a little while to adjust with all the loss of preg horomones but soon you be normal again . I went through the same thing, I never cares how I looked, I was a slob. You dont have to stop being sexy just because you are a mom now!!!
2007-11-08 16:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Betrayed and Insane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you're not being selfish. and yes Moms can be sexy, I'm a Mom, and I feel sexy all the time, even though my children are grown but I still feel sexy even at my age, so yes. just don't dress to sexy, or you'll be preparing yourself for another baby.
2007-11-08 17:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being selfish or inappropriate at all. You need to do things for yourself. Yes mums can definately be sexy. As long as the bub is being taken care of relax and let your hair down.
2007-11-08 21:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by glas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yea! Mommies are sexyyy we deserve pampering too so go put on your tight jeans and sexy boots and work it!!
2007-11-08 16:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bleedingheartz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
Motherhood doesn't take away womanhood, it reaffirms it even more. Now go out there and be SEXY!!
2007-11-08 16:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you're not! moms can always be sexy. there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to feel good about yourself.
2007-11-08 16:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋